Michael, you can have one of these. I'll tell you the secret. All you have to do is make sure that when your kids leave - they stay on their own. After that you can afford just about anything. ;-)
Just returned from the oasis and i would not reccomend it to anyone. You can stay at much nicer places for the same money. The BEACH IS NOT BACK TO NORMAL IN THIS AREA. The beach here is still two tiered if you will and not as nice as some of the beaches to the north. The hotel room smelled and the balconies were all dirty. The food wasn't to great either. Be aware that you will not be able to eat at all the restaurants unless you book the grand oasis.