We only ran into trouble once and and it was at the end of our last night. There was this wasted young guy that kept creeping on Blondie and then he made a grab for her and stumbled, because he was so drunk, and knocked her down. I shoved him back out of the way and security was on him and his buddy instantly and removed them from Paty'Os. Other that that, everyone was very well mannered.
Not sure I understand this post.....for that matter a few others. Yes he did post the question and a lot of people responded. I think he handled it real good by absorbing it and not coming back all defensive. But for some reason, for some posters, that wasn't good enough. One poster made it personal by challenging him to respond back. And when he did he got judged for that. Not good:icon_frown: Give the guy a break. Maybe TTR isn't the right place for him.....but maybe he took some of the good advice and might be able to make it work. In any case we don't have to be a bunch of asses about it.
Personally I think it was a long ways for being a "ass" about it. I honestly think Temptation isn't a good fit for him at this point of his life. I didn't say never come or anything like that. When I was younger I was a hothead looking for trouble and I always found it, so I speak from experience. As you get older guys definitely mellow and when he does Temp will be waiting for him
Ho boy this one seems to have gone off the rails... But since I like to step up to defend my single male brethern I'll hop in to try to share an olive branch here. You admit that you can be a bit of a hot head (your own words). the truth is at Temptation that can work against you more than other places. For example as a single guy, even though I don't do it much if I see a woman I want to get to know better I'll introduce myself and see what happens. Most guys are like this, not trying to get your wife into bed in spite of you. Again, since you admit you have a bit of a hot headed tendency, I'd suggest that's something you should address before considering a vacation at a location like Temptation. And I'm saying this in no way to be a jerk. Temptation is a fairly liberal place sexually and people get more brave than they would in real life. As a measuring stick if you get on edge by going to a nightclub at home then Temptation may not be a good setting for your trip. good luck!
Scenarios like this are similiar to what we seen at Easter and hence the reason I said security has really stepped it up. There was a time not long ago where security was scarce and slow to react.
There is a difference between flirting and oogling and semi-assault and/or crossing the line. Our first trip we had a very similar scenario - but again, security handled it for me before I had to.
Ms Skibum here this time.... I may be taking the unpopular stance here but I need to say my piece.... kudos to Billy for putting some thought into this. He knows he has a tendency to be a hothead and it seems to me that he would like to control his automatic reaction. The first step to doing so is being aware of it! He is much further ahead of those who don't think about it at all and just simply react. My thoughts are that all of these responses probably piss him off a bit, but also have him really thinking about it. Hopefully if they do decide to make the trip, his awareness of his own temperment will go a long ways. If not, he may end up in a Mexican jail. Oh and Billy, us ladies do like to be noticed! We also know how to handle ourselves if the attention is inappropriate. If we need our hubby's help, we will definitely ask for it. Make your decision, and have fun with it!
Be proud of your lady....like someone said earlier, the group at TTR takes care of each other so find some friends to hang with and they will help with any unwanted attention. I am by no means hot, but our first time there, I still had a guy that had a few beers keep telling me I had a nice rack, a great rack, etc. You just laugh and say thanks then change the subject. If you have trust in her then be confident in her ability to say no and move on.
