Not trying to pile on, but let's be honest - your girl probably likes the attention, and respectful appreciation for how attractive she is should never piss you off. If you bowe up every time someone thinks she's hot and let's you BOTH know, then you can vacation at a monostary and you'll still find beef. It's not the resort - it's the attitude.
I think Sweetchildomine said it well. I have the utmost respect for you for recognizing that this could be an issue for you and using common sense. TTR can increase drama exponentially. If you tend to drink too much, I can guarantee you're going to drink MORE than too much there. If you tend to get jealous under normal circumstances, TTR can multiply that by a million. We've been there when drama exploded with one of the couples in our group, and I wouldn't wish that on anyone. People come to TTR for the fun, flirty atmosphere. There is more flirting and touching going on there than you'd find at any club, and even if your wife weren't a hottie, someone would come on to her. And, the odds of there being another hot-tempered guy who's inebriated and looking for trouble are just too high.
Wow !! Going into TTR thinking that way is off to me. I believe my wife is beautiful as they come. I never would think that TTR is the place where I wasn't comfortable for my wife to walk to the bar and get a drink without being devoured by guys. We have run into just a couple of situations that were inappropriate by guys. They were handled up one right away and by no means physical altercations ever was a thought. We just set the situation straight with the understanding that it's not tolerated and the next time might not have the same result. They are gonna have ignorant people no matter where you go and will try anything. As far as avoiding TTR because of fear of this is rediculous to me. We were there a couple weeks ago and they had a bachelor party there at the same time. They never were inappropriate that I saw. One Irish guy told my wife that he wanted to grab her. She simply said, I wouldn't advise that and wouldn't if you know what's good for you. We love TTR and can't wait to see all our May friends next year!!
Would also wonder out loud, what would you personality type be after a few beers/mixed drinks???. The alcohol does calm down a few guys, the other 95% become very aggressive, obnoxious , etc. If you actually worry about this, I really would not go !! Maybe its Deja Vu !!
I'm pretty confident your not the only one going with a hottie, lol however why would you want to go somewhere you would be showing off your gal ,if you know your just going to be upset if anyone pays her attention. Hope your not going to get mad when another gal talks her up..
he says: That's a great observation you make and possibly a perspective or two that the OP hadn't considered. Our experience, based on a sample of one trip only, was that the ladies were more free with their hands, uninvited, than the guys were. And, true to your suggestion, they were equal opportunity gropers. The most blatant example occurred at Paty-O's when a cute young(er) lady, well into the sauce, approached Ms SkiBum face first from 10' away and greeted her with a slurred "Jeezuz honey, those look beeee-yootiful. Oh my gawd, they feel real too, let me see them". Before we could say "wanna come back to our room?" nipples were tweaked and two fully naked bewbies were ogled by a growing crowd of interested bystanders. So, should/would a hot-headed hubby haul off and slug the offender who is fully engaged in groping his hottie wife? We just let it slide but maybe, just for kicks, we should have alerted security. There was some hilarious irony to that night which we heard about the next day, from a very respectful bachelor party attendee no less. Apparently at 4am the groper took a solid right to the face in a full-on catfight with one of her TTR BFF's. Meeeoowwwwwwwwwww, play nice everyone.
I think your maybe your in-visioning a place that women really can't walk around. Truth is we do just fine. I am thinking that your wife won't be able to truly enjoy the place cause of a husband who gets jealous and believe it or not we know how to handle shit our selves. We don't need our man to help us with and to have a guy think that we need help is really an insult. I am sure your wife truly hates it too. I would love to say go but honestly you move toward what you think about and your already thinking about a Mexican jail. Good luck I hope it works out for you. This is really useless without pics. Not all girls are hot in every guys eye. Monique
So true! I was only politely verbally approached by any guys while there. But I had at least 2 women that I remember come up and kiss me and/or grab the tatas (one that I had not met in person previously but "knew" from on CCC; the other I didn't know from Eve, but, shoot, she said "Damn! You are my wet dream, girl!" so how do you get offended by that?? I was honestly to busy trying not to laugh!). However, my hub has always liked to hear about and/or see me get hit on because I guess it is validation for him that he made a good pick (whatever floats his boat, I guess lol). But he also got PLENTY of attention while we were there...and not sure the OP has thought of that, either? Will you be just as hot headed if there are other "little hotties" flirting with you? Will she be jealous?:ladiesman1: Like Monique said, without pics hard to say "Oh yeah - you guys are gonna have to beat them off with a stick!!" or otherwise. And, one of the couples we met on here and then hung out with there was MUCH more low key (at least the first few days) but they had been to TTR for a day on a previous Cancun trip AND they are planning to go back again. So, can't be all bad, eh? Great...now I am missing TTR more again and really want to go back RIGHT NOW!!! Dang this topic! ;-) :musik026:
