Yes, I have a vested interest in his well being! He determines whether or not we will be happy here in Philly for the next few months...
Has anyone on here ever gotten the "I never loved you in the first place" speech from the ex? What are your reactions? What is the appropriate way to deal with it?
I have gotten it before....My sarcasim and wit at the time outplayed her hand and I totally schooled her in insults lol. She eventually admitted to me that she had been lying
I guess that's one way to handle it. I sent back a message saying I don't really understand why you feel that way. Life is a journey.. a learning process if you will. Everything that happens in your life teaches you something more about yourself. I suppose it was fairly negative and not right for her to send something like that to me out of the blue sky.. it's been almost TWO years since I've said anything to her.
no no thats another (and probably better) way to approach it. Shows signs of maturity and shows that she lacks that (of course I dont know her so I cant judge) but it shows you stepped up and accepted it but sent your feelings back in return
I guess so, I've always been extremely mature about things and my relationships.. been careful not to burn bridges and always said what's on my mind and stood up for what's right. Apparently that's not how alot of other people live. I explained to her that as per her request I moved on with my life and put her out of my mind as she wanted. I just don't understand how two years can go by and all of a sudden she decides she never loved me. Nuts.
Walter Peck Not from Groundhog Day, but one of my fav. quotes from a BILL MURRAY movie, indeed! Mr. Peck: Peck: Dr. Venkman, what exactly are you a doctor OF? Venkman: I have a degree in both Psychology and Parapsychology. Peck: When you catch these Ghosts, where do you store them? Venkman: In a storage facility. Peck: May I see... the storage Facility Dr. Venkman? Venkman: Nooo. Peck: Why Not, Dr. Venkman? Venkman: Because you didn't say the magic WORD. Peck: What's the magic word, Dr. Venkman? Venkman: PLEASE My name is WALTER PECK. I am a representative from the environmental protection agency. These men are consummate SNOWBALL artists. They use light sensitive nerve inducing gases to induce hallucinations. People think they're seeing GHOSTS, then they CALL these BOZO'S who conveniently show up to deal with the problem. I hope you're not seriously considering listening to these men. Venkman: You can believe Mr. Pecker, PecK: My NAME IS PECK Venkman: or you can see what's going on outside.
