Go with your wife in February before she starts to show very much. She should still have a good time just taking in the atmosphere and antics. Ok she can't drink but pregnancy never stops a woman from looking and being sexy
I agree with your logic. I should add that we are not swingers either so that shouldn't be a factor. If I were to go then it would be for the beers, party and sun. And would definitely send her to a spa and probably do something tropical but more relaxing than temp for the two of us later in the pregnancy. But talking this all out has me leaning option 3. Some very good points above about saving the joy of temptations for when she is able to go again.
The other couple.... would they be interested in going with you? You could offer to pool the total cost together and split it. It should probably still be a good deal. That way she wouldn't feel like she wouldn't feel alone in being pregnant and not being able to drink. She'd have her pregnant friend there with her. She wouldn't feel like she was holding you back from drinking a bit which you could do with your buddy. The guys should still go easy....maybe one or two nights of drinking. Nothing more attractive than a drunk husband to a sober wife...lol. Otherwise enjoy the sun, pool, restaurants, together. Maybe a couple of sightseeing trips if the ladies are up to it. Maybe A SHOPPING TRIP.... for BABY STUFF!
First off, Congrats on the baby. Although it may seem a little inconvenient to be with baby now.... TTR will always be waiting in the future when you can send the kids to Grandma's. One problem that we have at Temptations is that we never go and do all the other stuff since there is always partying at the pool. If your wife was feeling up to it, this might be your opportunity to see the ruins, do the boat trip, shop etc. The Boy and I have traveled separately before but we find we always have more fun when we're together so I really have trouble thinking that Option 2 would work. What would plane tickets cost? If they aren't much, it might be worth the trip. Realistically, this is your last chance to go for a year or so until you can leave the baby alone for a few days (alone= with Grandma). I never seem to relax at home so if you do scrap the trip, you may want to still think about the short trip to the spa or a closer beach. Either way, TTR will be excited to see you when you do return whether it's this spring or in a few months, years, decades. That's what makes it so much fun.
I was very hesitant in even throwing this question out there but am very glad I did, so many good ideas. Thanks everyone. I am going to think it over for a couple days. Will follow up with how it turns out. Thanks.
Y'all could always go and hang out by the quiet pool and make it more of a romantic trip instead of a party trip...
Hey! Could your wife find a hot friend of hers that you could take in her place? (OK...don't shoot me ladies....I'm kidding, I'm kidding....)
