we just tell people Temptation, in fact we've got our TTR happy anniversary/feliz aniversario banner and a pic framed in my man cave. Now when we went to Desire, we just said Puerto Morelos. Topless most people can handle, clothing optional, well............ It is true, as you get older you tend to lose a little more filter every year. As I've heard before, F*** em if they can't take a joke.
We have about 4 resorts we keep "handy" in the memory bank when people ask. We dont tell because in the working world, bosses and coworkers are still very judgmental. We have adult kids, but we both feel it would be a very awkward conversation that we dont need to have. Most people leave it alone when we say.."Oh, we try several different resorts up and down the coast". But every once in a while, we'll get one or two that demand the name of the resort. We always tell them the most expensive vanilla resorts like the Excellence!!
