Janie, Sounds familiar....I had a similar experience....we had just arrived. I joined the balloon game...and won!!!! Such a great title!!:icon_lol: Once you win a game, people remember you for it. The first time we went, Jamie and Karen suggested we find Chinos and let him know we wanted to play the games. We did just that and well....every game has to have a loser too. :huh: and that can be as much fun as winning!!! Nalisa
Go...have a good time...have no worries...enjoy yourself!! It's your vacation and chances are these people will never see you again! Live life like your dying...it could be your last day!!
I just have to say...liquid courage does help but sometimes just walking to or from the bathroom will get you in to trouble...I am just saying.....and for those who are NOT newbies, do you have any idea what I am saying?
Here's something Nat and I tried when we were there the first time. Each day alternate between his day and her day. On His day she has to do what you want (within legal boundries *L*). If you tell her to participate in a game she does. If it's going back to the room for other activities she does. On Her day you do whatever she says... fetching food to the poolside, participating in games, etc. it's a fun way to help her get involved. Oh and start with Her day so she gets her fun first. *L*
:xyxthumbs: I like that idea..Sounds fun as well as interesting!! :aktion031: :bj: :69: :flash: :bootyshake: :lotsofmichaelfs:
oh it is... she doesn't like getting up in front of other people but ended up winning the best legs contest and I ended up winning Mr Nice Shoes. *L*
Yes I do and yes you are right. TTR pushes a lot of envelopes for a lot of couples. If one of the partners is extremely jealous TTR is NOT the place to come. I've seen where guys act like they ended up in a candy store and their ladies go after any female that even looks at them. And vice versa. Those are not pretty sights. But if the two of you are comfortable with each other and trust each other TTR can be the best vacation you've ever had. To continue on the orginal thought.. as all of us married guys know, the best way to get a female not to do something she might not be comfortable with is to tell her repeatedly that she should or has too. And even if she does, you will pay dearly for it for a long time. The best way is to let her make that decision. You might be surprise how fast she does make the decision. I was. Oh, and when she does... don't make a big deal about it. That just might be enough to make her change her mind. Just sit back and enjoy... Remember if momma is happy, everyone is happy! Jamie
