I'm with you. I'm not a swinger but would love to just have fun with some other ladies. Not looking for full on sex to start with but just someone to mess around with and not have to deal with the husband wanting to join.
We were just there in February for just a couple days, but we are already trying to plan our next trip. We want to stay longer next time. We were bummed they didn't do the foam party the Thursday we were there.
I agree with you. Restrictions and Limits will actually hurt your overall experiences. Make sure you have a major talk with each other beforehand. Any Jealously is very bad and should be left at home. If you are only looking for a girl on girl it's better to find an very hard to find single unicorn then a couple. With a couple the odd person out is not having much fun. Is it fair that 3 out of 4 are enjoying themselves. Not! Also don't expect things will be like a fairytale or romance novel, probably will not happen. Just let the party roll the way it goes.
You are not alone, this is an increasingly popular scenario for a lot of couples. It is the lifestyle that fits our marriage the best and makes us both very happy. And yes there is a “sign” for it. In our experiences a “pink heart” is the universal sign. We learned this from Hedo. A pink heart necklace, a pink heart tattoo (fake or real), a pink heart bracelet, etc...
Been around along time there are alot of so called symbles/trinkets people wear to show what they are but nothing universal flirting and chatting works best .....