Not sure if Angie was just kidding or not but please don't ever post naked pics of others on social media without their knowledge....Big No No! If caught could get you banned and or removed from said social site. Although I'm sure you know this already..... That being said, what you and your hubby do is no one's business but yours and if your family doesn't like it they can pound city sand they are not you. You are adults and can make your alone fun time what ever you choose and if people want to judge or be that uptight about it, it's THEIR Problem not yours. Don't be so stuck on what they'll think, who cares!! I know this because I used to be one of those "OMG what will people think?!" type people I've reached an age where I could give two shits!! LOL They don't put a roof over my head, they don't put food on my table nor pay my bills or cloth me. Therefore they have no right to judge what I do or what fun I have. I don't care what people think period! I tell them the truth...I'm going to Cancun for a week at an all inclusive top optional, alcohol induced sex fest!! (just to be clear...the sex is with the hubby only...lol) The grin on my face is from ear to ear as their jaw hits the ground!! Although, most smile with me and reply....."Good for you guys!!" After 32 mostly wonderful years in my humble opinion if you can't be truthful about your life and what you do then why do it!? Took me a long time to get this attitude but I love it....and the few friends that looked at me like 'How could you'...(and seriously how could I do what go topless and have a blast....very easy!! LOL) I've said "hey don't knock it until you try it!! and walked away you'll always get someone who won't approve it's life..... Whatever you decide to do, Enjoy your stay live it up and have a blast!!! D
THIS Idea is Awesome!!! LOL for those that don't want to explain a lot!! Or to have those decent pics to post!! lol Love it! D
On Facebook, you just post and Tag Cancun.... If you really need a "cover" resort, just tag the Hard Rock. It is NOT TTR, but people migh think it's klike that... except for TTR vets!
A lot of us are just as concerned about jobs as we are about families. We don't have the luxury of taking a "you all can just deal with it," approach. You can tell the "truth" about where you're going without telling the "whole truth." When people ask where we're going, I say "Cancun." If they keep pressing, I start giving a whole off-topic talk about the beach being shaped like a 7, and there's the hotel zone, and we're kind of out of the main drag, but we're hoping to get downtown, and there's this really cool club called Coco Bongo...have they ever heard of it? Oh, let me tell you about their shows! (If they push beyond this, I lie and say the Riu. Most people don't go farther than that.) I also make sure there are plenty of SFW pictures because who really believes someone would go on a tropical vacation and NOT post pictures these days???? I just tag them all "Cancun." 1. Restaurants: get some scene shots and some couple shots while you're dressed nicely. Take photos of your food. 2. Beach beds and the pool at sunset or sunrise--it's pretty, and there usually aren't a lot of people around. 3. Beach--take a walk and take some scene shots and selfies. If you do the kayaking or paddleboarding, get the guys who work the rental shack to take some pictures of you doing that. 4. Make sure to get some pictures with friends while you're all dressed. The only thing I regret about our last trip is that we forgot to do that.
I followed this advice one time...and the coworker I was lying to had just been the Hard Rock for a bachelor party a few weeks before. :icon_rolleyes: Oops!
Todd and Laura....we are on the same page. We cannot afford to be fully transparent for several reasons and you two seem to understand. Thank you for your helpful advice and we will certainly be using many or most of your suggestions. Our only wish is that you two were coming on our dates. Thanks again! Paul & Renea
When I go to Mexico, I tell everyone that my phone will be off due to outrageous data charges. So no pics or FB posts are expected.
Both phones in airplane mode or off and locked in the safe, we try to check them at least once a day. T
This might be difficult for us as we are addicted to our phones, but it is something we prolly need to do. Phone detox!
