My advice would be to definitely discuss any thoughts along those lines ahead of time, and anything you aren't comfortable discussing before you get there is awfully likely to lead to problems if you go ahead with it after a few (dozen) drinks. I don't want to cross Steve's lines on this topic, but just know that no one will pressure anyone (nobody wants to be in a situation with someone who was pressured!) and that, while you can likely find whatever level you're looking for, you could also go and not see it at all if you weren't looking. If you want to talk to people where you can talk in more detail, you should probably check out Steve's other site, Cancun Swingers Lifestyle Couples Forum, since he needs to keep most of that chatter off of this site. Regardles of where you end up on that question, TTR is an amazing party for EVERYONE!!
Trying to decicde IF YOU WANT TO BE nude or prude IF SO EITHER ONE WOULD BE GREAT THEN GO TT/P AND HAVE A BALL:huepfen021::huepfen021::huepfen021::huepfen021:
Having been to the Cancun area 15 times, many at nicer adult resorts, we were ALWAYS bored until we found TTR which was called Blue Bay on our 1st trip. We have been back 5 times and getting ready to book our 6th trip. We discussed going to Costa Rica or The Dominican or St. Thomas...somewhere different. It always comes back to us being afraid we would be bored. At TTR, we have never been bored. Everyone is friendly and there for the same reasons. Most of us have stressful jobs, kids and a need to be a "kid" ourselves for a week. I have heard and read that some do not like it because it is like a college spring break for adults. Exactly what we are looking for and need to recharge our batteries. As for the topless thing, I am not as comfortable as most being topless. The more I go, the more I get brave especially after liquid courage but it usually goes right back on. I have not been on the Boobs Cruise yet for many different reasons and I do not feel like I have missed out or had a bad trip because we have not gone YET. Although we do not consider ourselves swingers, we were stereotyped on our last trip after lingerie night in Paty O's by some couples from this forum. I could not understand and was hurt by the assumption....until I saw our friends pictures. I could understand why they would think it. TTR brings out the wild side even in the most shy types.
