Sometimes da best o-fence is a good d-fence... In other words, make sure that your lady knows the people around her before you split to take a leak or whatever, if she's the kind/type who finds it difficult to tell some guy to take a hike. Some are, doesn't make them bad people. Some guys don't even take the clue when it's spelled out to them physically. Stacia has only had one bad encounter at TTR, with a guy who had, until that precise moment, seemed perfectly all right. So, eveen with precautionary stuff, bad stuff still can happen. But, it can happen anywhere. Lesson: don't let your guard down, you're still "in public," even if it is a "different" kind of public.
we have only ever had one prob.while taking a photo guy grabs my wifes tits from behind,by the time i got out of my chair her and the other girls hap beat the snot out of him.his group eveytime they finished a drink they would throw their glass on the ground as hard as they could..they were escorted out.we told manger they could either do something about it or our large group would handel it..but like said never leave them unescorted
Thanks for the trip report. Sounds like overall you had a good time and met a nice group from the forum. Re the single guys. Personally, we have never really had any problems with single guys - and we have met some really great single guys who went solo or in small groups. I'm certainly no fan of the 10+ strong bachelor parties or sports teams that sometimes happen though. Have to say I would disagree with this from our experience of scores of trips. Sure, attractive ladies may well get some unwanted attention, but I'm not sure I'd say it was "dangerous". The vast majority of singles are respectful and if their advances are not wanted then it almost always ends there. If it doesn't then the cancuncare posse will look after things. I might add that a little attention to ladies from guys can be a positive thing. What lady doesnt like to know she's still attractive to the opposite sex? And as hubby knowing other guys want your girl, and knowing she's all yours - that's a little ego boost too
I pretty much hung out at the pool by myself and I did get a lot of attention but I was never forced into anything. Most of the single guys just liked talking (with intention possibly) but most were very respectful. There were a few persistent ones but nothing I couldn't handle
Steve I would have to agree that it is a secure feeling when you can walk away from your wife and not worry about "creepers" singles annoying the our women. We the, "June Junkies", had a silent sign the girls came up with that got flashed and all CancunCare husbands knew that sign. And if used that meant a wife was feeling uncomfortable and that a CancunCare husband would be interveening in the situation quickly. It worked well and I believe it should be adapted by all groups going to Temptation. I also agree that the ladies should not venture outside the PatyO's area by themselves. But this is true anywhere there's booze and babes(wives). It doesn't matter if it's TTR or a soccer match in your home town...safety first! Ladies should travel in pairs or with their partners if possible...it only makes sense. Creeper Sign used by the June Junkies: It's kinda like the Boy Scout salute but instead of 3 fingers just use 2. Once your group starts using it, it gets easier to watch for. No need to wave it high in the air above your head. Just a gentle back and forth to someone in your group should do the trick. And Ladies, make sure the guys in your group all know the sign. We husbands watched out for all the wives this June and if any of them flashed 2 fingers at us we'd be on the move, no matter whose wife it was. And men...it's your responsibility to watch out for all the ladies and they really do appreciate it! Jeff... And Jill seconds it!
My wife is quite friendly and is often taking to couples, singles, whoever. She has never had any issue with a single guy being disrespectful unless he was a mess and that time his friends came over to apologize afterwards. I'm sure this was an isilated incepdent and in no reflection on the types of people who return year after year to TTR.
