I hate these threads... Single guys are a lot of fun as long as their respectful! And can you please explain what you meant by the "oktoberbreast" comment. We're part of the Octoberbreast group and we don't advertise it as a swingers resort. I was just a little confused.
The way I read it wasn't that Octoberbreast was advertised that way, but that some people who go then and that may go on swingers sites may try to pump it up that way. Truth is I don't like these threads either, you have a great time, meet great people, Boobs Cruise etc. but when you distill it and put it online, the biggest thing you write about is regarding a group of dudes. Heck it doesn't say they even really did anything untoward, just that by being there it affected their perceived vibe. I'm not trying to get on the OP's case, it's not the first thread of this type by any stretch. So please don't take it personally.
As Keith stated, my only question would be how did single guys act.... cause there is a lot of variables when dealing with single guys and Remember , IF god forbid a husband and wife that have been going to TTR for ages suddenly divorce, Now they are single but each have friends they have met and want to continue to meet at TTR. So just cause someone is single , doesnt make them bad... being disrespectful and an idiot does So on threads like these, its important to point out the reasoning. Cause this isnt a couples only resort, or a swingers resort... its a fun resort that may include a bit of everything and everyone
I think she meant a person was posting under the handle Oktoberbreast, at least that's how I read it. Truth is there wasn't a lot of singles there when we were there in late Sept. early Oct.
Cannot judge all single guys the same way just because some behave bad sometimes. We both hate generalizing and stereotypes. Last year was our first time at TTR and we had a blast but heard several times negative comments about single guys, and honestly the only 2 issues we had during that week were with intoxicated married guys that got way too touchy/grabby/aggressive without consent. We heard 3 times negative comments and talk about swingers, one time it was at Patyo's after the party had finished (was like past 3AM), very nasty talk. We are swingers and most of the things being said were again so stereotyped and false. But whatever we have thick skin and don't give a shit what others think. I think both swingers and single guys have a stigma at TTR, so the motto "no one judges you" might not be 100% true after all... We are not hunting for single guys but we have no issues be-friending them while we are there at TTR. We almost booked March this year and got messages of people warning us that March is indeed sausage fest and that we should avoid it. I guess if having a lot of single guys is not your thing then choose another month next time Our 2 cents...
It's on another website that is promoting it to their members - the quote was directly from their advertisement.
She did say she met some nice single guys, it was just when there was a group of 15 of them. I think we've all seen the phenomenon of brain incapacitation when certain groups of guys gather in larger groups
I did read that, I was referring to every thread , not just hers... hoping that I could just go back and copy and paste that answer to every thread that pops up hahaha. :ernaehrung015:
Last April we never saw a large group of guys, heck I think 3 or 4 guys together was probably the max we saw. But I can see your point, in a large group like that (10 or more) maybe testosterone can start running a bit too much...
