We have several close friends who are "in the lifestyle" and we love them all. Great people and believe it or not, we prefer to hang out with them. We've been asked a BUNCH of times over the years. We usually always take it as a compliment, (especially since I (Mark) consider us Beauty and the Beast) , politely decline and all's well. We usually have 2 types of couples who ask: #1. They ask, we decline, then continue to hang out, become friends and have fun (And yeah, sometimes it may flow into some harmless "sexy" type fun, which we do like). #2. They ask, we decline, and they never talk to us again because they have a 1 track mind. We've had a bunch of these. Their loss. But, it's never been a issue. Have fun!
That “agree” rating was about the honest “Beauty and the Beast” analysis Seriously, we have the same experiences as you.
You will find with the vast majority of people in the lifestyle...they are not pushy and very respectful. Sure...we may wanna have sex with you but we're all professional "not at this time" takers for a living.
