Thanks Jemstar, Xoie's Omah, and DavenRose for listening and offering your insights. I take it from your response Jemstar that this is new territory for you as well (i.e., your first time to be topless and wear tiny swimwear in a public setting). This is the case for us. I talked to her some about it when we first decided to visit Temptations. Her reponse was, "I have always wondered if I could do something like that, so daring, risque, and naughty." However, I think she is concerned about how I might feel, seeing my wife exposed to others. Jemstar and Xoie's Omah, did you have concerns about how your husbands might feel? If so, what did he say or do to encourage you and let you know it was okay with him? I want her to know beyond all doubt that if she wants to be "daring, risque, and naughty" that I am all for it and Desire it as well. Also, what was your feeling the first time you removed your top? Exhilirated, scared, liberated, aroused, embarrased? Anything you can share will be appreciated and help me in encouraging her. One last thing - Jemstar, have you decided on your tiny bikini? Any suggestions where I might shop for one? Thanks so much!