#1 in all of our trips to Blue Bay/Temptations there was only 1 trip where the resort happened to be overrun with Desire clients. Not exactly a bad thing but as far as pressure from lifestyles is low key. That was the only trip where some were less than low key. #2 as with #1 some people tend to push a bit too much but they are usually outsides to most groups and the groups tend to take care of their own if you know what I mean. Understand if you are outgoing you'll end up in a group with others and usually become long term TTR/BBG friends... We've had some in outgoing groups that rarely if ever took their tops off but they still are part of the group and we keep an eye on them.
It took me seven trips to Cancun to get my wife to Temptation. She was apprehensive about the whole topless, swinger idea. On the first day, I go to get us a drink and before I even get back, a couple of topless woman have her cornered in conversation. Just so happens our return visit the next year was with those same two couples. We both agreed, before we left, that we wanted to come back. Out of all of our visits to Cancun, TTR is only one of two resorts we've gone back to. We are scheduled for trip #3 in December and I doubt we'll ever go anywhere else.....maybe Desire!
We have had issues like this more than once. We typically keep to our group after so many trips together. Such is life. But when you see something wrong with someone you take care of it. When my wife was grabbed and pulled away one night while at the sports pool it was the closest in the group that immediately pulled the private party card and that was the last we saw of them. There was another time when someone was taking pictures way too many pictures of some that did not want their picture taken of her. After numerous hints to stop, I stepped in to help him out and took those unforgettable pictures of him with the girl that didn't want any pictures. No he didn't get to take them home after his camera was completely destroyed.
Wife was apprehensive to go. Said she would not go topless, and I better not pressure her. Read all the reviews on other sites and thought the worst. Said she hoped we did not run into anyone we knew. Checked in got ready for the pool, and went down. Thirty seconds of looking for a chair I hear my wife say, oh my God, Cindy how are you. She runs into one of her clients. We found chairs, went into the pool, they met us. Her client was topless and said to wife common, join me. Wife was topless in 5 minutes. Had I said that I would have paid the price. Had great time, wife went topless 5o percent of time. Had a great vacation and made new friends. 89 days until we return.
it would be good as you say to take a step closer to hedo, but it sounds as though the rules will be the same. I was surprised how strict the security were at times
Jim, We have been to TTR many times and really never wanted to go to Desire until our friends talked to us about going with them. I have to say, it was a BLAST! If you guys get a chance to go, it will be well worth it. Everyone is So Awesome there, and we met new friends. We cannot wait to go back.
Stacia was concerned that the place would be filled with slavering packs of swingers running wild, attacking everybody around. That didn't happen, nor anything even remotely approaching such. I thought that I'd be able to get a Crown Royal drink while there. That didn't happen either, until the last year and a half before the Reno.
They need more wild swingers. LOL. If they don't have CR, I doubt they'll have Johnny Walker Black/Double Black/Green/Gold Reserve, Maker's Mark, or Dewars. SMDH
