I forgot to quote the post when replying. Men usually have issues with BDSM outfits. Although as i said in my previous post, after a few drinks and after he see's what the resort is about, he just might be into it.
This is our 2nd trip and last year we didn't know about the theme nights so we didn't participate but still had a blast!!! This year we are planning to participate so can't wait!
I hear the resort has themes. But I hear the "groups" have themes also. Where would I find the resort themes? Even tho I plan on doing the group themes, I am curious.
Both themes can be fun although the groups from CCC usually put some thought behind their themes. The resort themes are there week after week after week and year after year after year. People that have gone multiple times and after this trip you'll plan the next one and you'll see why these groups want a change. Having said all that then here's what I suggest if you're the more daring of the two for example and the BDSM night is something you'd like to try and the resorts night is say white night there's nothing saying you can't mix the two up. You in your leathers and him in white throw in a dog collar and a leash for you and have him lead you around. Combination Sinner, Saint if you catch my drift. Might be something he feels he can participate in.
The biggest factor is when you go. April and May are months where a lot of CancunCare members go, so the CCC themes are well represented. Check the roll call for your time period and go from there. There will always be people at the resort who have never heard of CancunCare, and have no idea what any of the themes are.
And we all feel sorry for them not finding CCC :bash: We both will be doing most if not all of the theme nights
