I think we have all noticed that even on here with the "Dave&Ellie" incident, I always just try to have people put it in these terms when it comes to being single.... If you and your husband or wife have been coming to temptations for years and met so many great people, and suddenly you divorce or seperate, now your not allowed at temptations, wouldnt seem fair.. The first 2 trips to Cancun I was with my Ex, then we seperated..but I had met so many great people at Temptations, that i kept going back..not for the adults only atmosphere or topless woman and swingers, I came back for the good times, the bar tenders, the cast and most of all the people..
i got no problem with any of those things....it is a boobie buffet, and that helps make it fun!...and the swingers are the peeps we prefer to hang with. ...neither of those things has anything to do with the loser guys with cameras hanging in the disco or elsewhere.
To many of us its like a second home, couldn't imagine not being allowed back if I ever became single.
Its the element of the camera that people have the issue with because of the nature of the resort and people that have "never been" to TTR that just assume that its the single guys that are being pervs.. what is being said here is .. its not the singles any more than the couples.. its the lack of respect from the photographer.. male, female, single or married..
Your absolutely right, but the loser guys with the cameras arent always single guys...some of the loser creeps, may be some of the peeps you prefer to hang with...My point was just that , ever time u see a guy with a camera , dont assume he is single.
assumption...I understand, you and all of us have a problem with the loser guy with the camera hanging in the disco or elsewhere.. Just don't assume the loser guy is single.. Just as I don't assume that all swingers are like the jerk/perv/creep, we were unfortunate to meet at Temptations.
I think we were all typing at the same time, Cuz when I went back..I saw yours and Kims, we all have good trigger fingers today haha
Hmmm... So you don't like competition from the single guys for the single women? Kidding well at least partially lol! If you check out the more suggestive topics on these boards, I think you will find that more of them are started and talked about by couples (swingers or otherwise) than single guys. I just find it funny that the loudest voices complaining about single men are the ones that you would think would be the most open. There are always jackasses in every crowd, I just don't want to be looked on as a leper because I don't have a wife/girlfriend.
