We had a problem with a mid 35-45 year old male, about 5'10", dark hair and a big ass telephoto lens. He would actually follow and squat to position himself behind the women when they got up from their chairs. Several folks pointed him out to shut him down but he scurried to the sports pool. I was able to catch him the and have a little private chat. For a guy who pretended not to understand English he seem to pay very close attention when I told him what would happen the next time he pointed the camera at Tonia or our friends. During the remainder of the week I was provided a pleasant greeting each time I saw him just to let him know there were no hard feeling and that I had not forgotten his face. Needless to say the camera did not reappear again... that we know of. The only solution is for everyone to be equally diligent in shutting these idiots down as soon as they are detected. Various methods can be used like having a little private chat, collectively pointing at them chanting "Pervert...Pervert" or ensuring that the men form a little drinking circle around the offender, blocking his view and commenting about the various forms of abuse the group would inflict if they caught someone taking uninvited pictures of their spouses/girlfriends. Bottom line...cockroaches had light and as soon as you shine the spotlight on these perverts the sooner they will scurry away. Be sure to report them as soon as you identify them and then stay in their face each time they continue violate the rule.
We had a problem the last two times we were there, i took the cameras both times. i gave the first one back and kept the second one. I personally couldn't imagine sneaking around trying to secretly take pictures of women...........why don't they go to a strip club or buy a magazine. But i agree with you, the forst time you see it happen you need to take action or they will just keep doing it.
well of course all single guys arent to blame..duh.....but, the fact still remains that eliminating that demographic would have a HUGE impact on eliminating this problem.....come on, you all know this is true
No, we all dont believe its true.. have you not been reading the threads..funcpl27 is just stiring the pot.. because I am sure they (he or she) knows that if they want that kind of a resort its out there.. its called Desire! couples only!.. perhaps TTR is not for you!!
Wait I'm a pervert now? Why didn't anyone tell me sooner? I could have been having so much more fun all this time! That's it trenchcoats and no pants from now on! Woo Hoo! :icon_cool:
Wait a minute...you mean I wasn't supposed to wear that outfit in april...damn, I used my trenchcoat to hide my long telescopic lens .... Camera people a camera...get your minds out of the single guys gutter LMAO
look, i dont really care about this issue all that much..if someone takes pics of my titties im not gonna cry about it or get my panties in a wad....but i do think it is a bit creepy and would prefer that they eliminated this irritation......my point is, if you think its that big a deal you need to go to place without single males because that IS the main demographic doing this. It is really silly to argue otherwise.
I understand your point, however I dont think that is the case with temptations, yes usually the single guy would be to blame, however having been to temptations many many times, there are just as many if not more weird creepy husbands, some with wives consent, some just sneaking on there own...ya see at temptations there are a lot of couples that come down and expect a swingers orgy paradise and therefore treat it as such...where a lot of Single guys will try to pick up woman and flirt and do the normal single guy thing, but If you've been to temptations you will notice and see a lot of husbands and boyfriends treating it like a boobie buffet.... But I do understand how Single guy bandwagon is easy to hop on in these kind of situations, cuz in most places that would be the case... I just dont think so at Temptations, Yes a good number maybe, but just as many married or couples being pervs..
