I think your right. Singleness by itself shouldn't be the defining factor. I think the issue I personally had was the implied statement that these 4 would be on the prowl and that just because a woman (single or married) is at TTR, automatically makes her available for their use. I.e the phrase "you know what I mean" Just because a woman (single or married) decides to cut loose, party and maybe even lose her top, doesn't mean she's an easy victim to anyone else's fantasy. So I'll step off my soapbox now and resume getting ready to go to TTR.
Single ladies are cherished! Double standard or not, it's reality! We've never had a problem with a single guy that I can recall, but where three or more are gathered the testosterone will overload quickly as the alcohol flows and suddenly there are assholes everywhere, if you know what I mean. Sorry, I too read "we heard this is a meat market and we'd like some easy women" if you know what I mean.......there's a reason groups of single men are restricted on the Boobs Cruise isn't there?
So some of you are saying cause they're four single guys n imply they wanna get laid on vacation that they're creeps n shouldn't come to TTR? Every single guy n alot of married guys wanna get laid when they come to TTR. At least they were honest about it!!! Man i don't get some of you. Let's call La Policia cause some single guys wanna come to Temptation n have sex. Unfuckingreal!!!
Guess it all depends on how one goes about wanting to have sex. There is the polite respectful way letting the cards fall where they may and there can be the pushy, grabby and I am not taking no for an answer way. The first is cool and the latter is not. Don't take offence Dan you are not being painted at all with the same brush as those who fall in to the latter category. When it comes down to it some people are simply rude, pushy assholes regardless of whether they are single or not. My respectful humble opinion on the matter. Scott
The guy asked for opinions from CC members on his intentions. Not every one is going to have the same opinion or view on the subject. My opinion after being at TTR many times is that GROUPS of single guys ( behaving good or not ) do not add to the Sexual hip adult vibe that TTR is trying to present. GROUPS of guys hoarding around the bar and groping women trying to get drinks is not very sexy vibe. GROUPS of guys tend not to participate in theme nites which further alienates them. They tend to gawk at all the beutiful women in lingerie, can't blame them for that. The odds of a GROUP of guys getting laid is pretty slim, probably better odds of getting in trouble. He asked for opinions, too bad if he doesn't like it .
This has nothing to do w me personally but everyone seems to assume they're going be pushy n try n sleep w every woman there!!! Without even talking to them they're getting chastised already n i don't believe that TTR or this site should be like that. Nobody knows you n nobody gives a shit, does that sound familiar?
You make a good point on that Dan We often jump to conclusions based on past experiences and / or first impressions and that is not fair. To balance this out a bit (IMHO) I think their inference to looking for sex got people hackles up because of predatory groups of singles we have seen in the past. You are absolutely right in that we didn't give them a fair shake.
To the contrary,, they (as a GROUP) got honest opinions from TTR guests. The opinions are bases on passed experiences, thats life. Just because they're not politically correct and some don't like the opinions doesn't make them lies. Best to know what there in for before they get there, good or bad. Seems that some can't distinguish between singles and groups either.
Say it isn't so . 5th. time returner feb. 10th.-16th. and always had a blast as a single. Bottom line is if you'd get punched in the face for your actions here in the states......know what I mean.
