Definitely read Kyle’s review of all three. That will gauge your level of interest and expectations. Only you can really answer how far you want things to go and what you and your spouse are comfortable with. We have done three trips to Temptation. Two prior to the renovations and one after. We’ve been to Pearl on a day pass and RM for three days. Of the three resorts we rank them: RM Temptation Pearl Rm is a great in between of the party and still getting the sexy naked fun that the Desire properties offer. Pearl was too slow for us. As scuba steve mentions there are things that the new resort doesn’t have that the old resort did that the veterans miss. One for us is the pool size. The pool at the new TTR is too big in our opinion. The RM pool is smaller and allows for easy conversation and being able to socialize. As for the day pass comments we agree. You won’t get a good feel of the resorts by doing it. We’re probably short changing Pearl a little because of only doing a day pass.