Our friends just came back from Desire and were telling us some pretty good stories!!! They are swingers and had no trouble hooking up with another couple...I'm sure if that's what you are going for there will be opportunities. I can't speak for Temptations, but I know from going to Hedo, it's there!!!! Have fun
There's definatley fun to be had at TTR but it isn't in your face at all. They've shown Desire on the TV here in the UK plus it's on a very popular swingers sight and it looks amazing but to be honest everytime they show Hedo it's full of many large bellied men which isn't the nicest sight. It's probably not all like that but it's what they show on TV.
Max32 Have to totally agree, we are in the same boat as you. We were approached, declined, not a big deal. Had a totally awesome time, We will be back next Feb. Long story short, if you are looking for it, you can find it, if not, no problem!
Really glad the approch didn't put you off going back. Some people give other swingers a very very bad name xxx
Never!! We have loved TTR every time we've been - peeps who swing have never worried us cuz eveyones respectful. In fact the ONLY time Ive gotten a lil p'd off at TTR was the year they were doing all the refurbs and they must have been selling vaca's there cheap in the UK - cuz there were a couple groups of REALLY infantile guys there who had obvioulsy heard that there were lots of boobs on show etc etc at TTR. Long story short - they p'd everyone off so much that a couple of em if not all of em were thrown out of the resort! Max xxxxx
Of all the trips I could go on with a group of guys TTR would not make my list at all. That's way too much testosterone build-up that statistically could not be properly released. Which usually spells out a recipe for disaster. My wife & I are very secure in our relationship and oftentimes in a party atmosphere we'll seperate as we mingle amongst the people (in other words we don't need to be glued at the hip, we both have personality), and one thing I noticed with some of the single guys at TTR they would interpret this as an opportunity to try to work their angle with my wife. An angle that would not incorporate me into the their equation at all and even go as far as to try to put me down in order to try to raise their own masculinity. Now I surley reconize that this type of macho behavior has always existed & always will, but I'm a numbers guy & if I were a single guy at TTR a place that is preceived by many to be a swing friendly resort I would at minimum propose my availibilty for a threesome (better odds) before attemptimg the earlier metioned approach with a married women whose husband is standing 15+/- feet away with hopes that a one-on-one proposition may possibly come out of it. Especially when the only alternative for release otherwise for a hetro single dude that comes to TTR alone or with his buddies is his own rosie palm. Again I just don't think TTR woul be a good destination for even a single guy or let alone a group of guys with high sexual expectations, there are so many other destinations available that to simply put it would be like shooting fish in a barrel.
I'd agree. I love the place but I wouldn't go back if I were single. I do well in a singles environment (historically speaking ) But this places just isn't singles oriented. Even if you go down to the clubs and hook up you can't bring them back. Some guys seem to pull it off and do really well with the few single ladies around but I have watched and those guys have game for days. So, if youre a guy that can get laid anywhere, all the time, you will do well here too. If you can't get a girl out of a club back home you don't have a better chance at TTR. There are simply not alot of single girls looking to get sweaty. One more thing that you should know While you single guys are trying to hit on single ladies guess what alot of the couples are doing? Hitting on the single ladies.
You guys make interesting points. I'm a single guy and was gonna book a trip down there but then started thinking the same thing that you guys are saying. Now I'm not someone who is obsessed with getting laid and won't spend my whole vacation sweating over it but it is nice to have
