If you play with the right people, who respect your safety and value your pleasure as much as their own....no crash helmet necessary!:aetsch004:
Remember the ladie is always in charge. We have never had a problem at TTR. Always be respectful of others feelings and have fun.
I'd jus like to add to this thread from the point of a non swinger - (this is a bit of a long post - sorry!!) My hubby & I arent swingers - doesnt interest us in the slightest. We go to TTR cuz there are no kids and the 'TTR vibe' which is the freedom to be yourself - like the 70yr old lady mentioned in a previous post who was topless - GOOD FOR HER!!. NOBODY cares what you look like - where you're from or what the hell your sexual orientation is. We have NEVER been approached by anyone - but I can honestly say that if it were to ever happen we would take it as a huge compliment and politely decline. I'm 100% sure that our declination would be accepted & respected. As far as I'm aware the playing goes on in private and theres no public sex - which in my book is quite right for TTR (I dont wanna see peeps gettin jiggy wit it 'live' thanks!!). The most action (if you can call it that cuz the entertainement staff do it) is body shots and the games they play - which in my book is harmless fun. Anyone who goes to TTR has to be prepared to see boobs (they're just BOOBS FFS -dont get why some peeps think topless bathing is the end of the world) & the odd naked body (esp after naked tequila volley ball!!). If you cant handle that then dont go to TTR! I'm a firm believer in 'its your life -live it however the hell you want, cuz it's short' (I'm a nurse so see stuff that makes me cherish every day) As long as all are consenting and no ones getting hurt - then ENJOY!! TTR is that sort of place that you can enjoy if you like going topless & an adult theme & language etc - you dont have to be a swinger!! I cant wait to get back there in just over a week!! Max x
Max, Hope you and Ross have another great trip! We are going to miss you guys for sure. Dave and Rosa
swinging Great thread.... As some great info has come out in it. I always thought that on the swing spectrum it was desire-Temptation then hedo. We have swung before and not opposed to it again. It would just depend upon the right environment and connection made. I guess the best way to put it we like to be in a resort were it is more likely to happen then not.... Not being seasoned swingers by any means we'd likely be waiting to be approached rather than approaching..... So we have been really debating which resort to book for the first time.....
My thought, and this is from someone who has never been to any of them!, LOL - is that the three resorts you mentioned would rank this way in terms of tameness to naughtiness: Temptation, Desire, Hedo. Just from impressions I have gotten from friends who have been to all three.
I've never been to Desire or Hedo (seen hedo on the TV - looks WILD!) but I would also make that assumption Max
