You all have it wrong . Your trip is not about anyone here. This is about you and her, your goal is to please her and her is to put all aside the small thing . Go out buy the hot swimwear you won't her to wear. It totally about you two after the first drink we all are to busy having fun .
Go with what "She" feels comfortable with and it will make for a great time....at some point, she might test her limits, as we all do, and realize its fun.....however, just make sure she is aware that "beautiful" comes in all different shapes, sizes and colors.....have a great time...
The phrase "nobody knows you and nobody gives a shit!" Is more a lifestyle than an idea. You have as much fun and do as much as you wish. You show as much or as little as you like. I (big sexy) am hardly the model of physical fitness, however somehow I always somehow have a helluva time. I am sure whatever you do she and you will both have a great time. If youre there when we are I will guarantee it... muahahahaha Sent from my SCH-I535 using Tapatalk
I think alot of us have stretch marks from kids. Mine are small and on my hips. They show alot more when I am tanned. Noone there is gonna judge you. Go and have fun and forget the damm stretch marks.
(Diana) This makes me so sad: we women are our own worst critics....and we are horribly harsh on ourselves!! I am 33, 2 children, and have lost an extra 50 pounds. It took me a couple trips to Temptation and many months in a bikini to realize a very key point: NO ONE LOOKS AS CLOSELY AS I DO! And no one is looking for my imperfections! My second trip to TTR, I had a new acquaintance baffling over the fact that I had one child, let alone 2. I couldn't believe he didn't see my stretch marks and saggy, stretched out skin & scar-tissue from stretch marks. It was a major eye opener. Not only do most people at TTR not judge you by your looks, they appreciate you for who you are and all the natural beauty you possess. Do yourself a favour: stop comparing yourself to everyone else, and listen to your husband: you're beautiful, you're sexy, you're AMAZING AS YOU ARE! And believe it.
I call them tiger stripes! Stretch marks are a beautiful thing.... Embrace your beauty and rock it!!!!
Tiger stripes I like that name for them !! I have tiger stripes on my jelly belly and on my boobs from having a child and my weight going from 210lbdown to 126lb a few times !! Now am in the middle of that trying to get some off for TTR . I think there are a lot if ladies there that are all in the same boat nobody is total happy with there body . But a TTR I go topless because nobody is judging me !!!
I wholly agree with this sentiment. WE can tell her that no one will judge her. However, she won't truly believe it until she feels it for herself. She should wear something she is comfortable with on the fist day. If she does not, she will be miserable regardless of how many responses you show her from your post. I can guarantee as she "feels the love" she will become more comfortable and test her own limits; an exercise in self discovery! I am a big woman in every way - 6'2" in heels, 160 pounds and 38DD! Being at TTR, even though I was nearly naked and the one of the tallest people around, helped me to overcome my body image fears. PS. Just make sure that you slip the wicked weasel into her bag! She will be looking for one to wear by the second day!
