I’m 100% vanilla... at least I thought I was until I went to TTR. Was just there one day (not long enough) and was beyond excited thinking about the possibilities. Unfortunately I drank too much and missed out on the late night fun I seemed to have planned at the sexy pool that day. (Rookie mistake) Thinking of going to Desire. I’m intrigued and hoping to play, but have NO idea what that looks like/how to prep for that with my husband. We’re not jealous people at all, and would both be open to soft swapping but not sure about a full swap. Are lifestyle couples pretty good about leading the charge when it comes to interacting with new couples. I know communication is key so I’d make that known. Any advice or recommendations from LS couples to an excited newbie would be very welcome!