Depends on the time you go...we have been at times I'm dressed slutty sexy and get lots of eyeball rolls from both men and women and at other times get woo hoo
One of my favorite toasts. The funny thing is that I learned it as an 8 year old kid in Mexico with my parents. It has since taken on new significance.
The best part of going to TTR is that you can be as sexy as you want. My husband has bought outfits that I would not wear at home. Nobody knows you and nobody cares. What ever make you feel good. Your there to have fun and make friends.
Let 'em roll. It just means that they are too stoopid to know where they booked their vacation. Maybe is they rool their eyes hard enough they can get a good look at their little piece of gray matter.
This is how the 'no means no' works both ways. I agree it's pretty heavy full-on flirting, but it's TTR and anything goes really. I definitely still wouldn't see this as slut territory as this is how some things play out down there, unless she'd already been told 'hands off' but did it anyway. At TTR, some couples don't mind (or encourage) the type of behaviour you mention above so unless she'd been warned before then I would say yeah she's treading close to the line but I'd still say she didn't do anything wrong. In my opinion, stuff like this is part and parcel of sexy pool behaviour. I wouldn't think 'slut' for what you're descibing. However that doesn't mean you should have to endure such behaviour if it's beyond your comfort zones. It's a different world to what is the norm everywhere else, but I guess people should consider others' limits and she should have tested the water first with something less extreme lol. My husband would do exactly same as yours did - deer in headlights "oh shit what do I do - don't touch her and make sure the wife knows I have no part in this" lol. However, he should of removed her from his lap and told her what she was doing was not ok. If she'd carried on regardless then yeah I'd have shot her a dirty look too and tried to avoid her rest of the trip. This is why I truly believe 'the conversation' couples should have before they arrive about boundaries is so important. TTR is like nowhere else and flirting etiquette is somewhat thrown out the window here and anything is game (nobody knows you nobody gives a shit right). Too many arguments happen because things like this aren't discussed and agreed prior to arrival. FYI if anyone wants to try to straddle my husband naked, go for it - I haven't got to smile at that 'oh shit what do I do' look on his face in a long time
When we were there in Dec last year, the girls in our group were in the corner having a few photos taken together while all dressed slutty ( nobody in the background just the bushes) and we heard 2 women bitching who were a lot older and just with there husband , they were bitching about what they were wearing. You could clearly see it was just jealousy. We are back in October this year and will be acting and dressing as slutty as ever, any other sluts are more welcome to join us in our fun!
Damm girl! What a shame our dates don't coincide coz this papi was willing to collaborate in bringing your sluttiness right out of you. :icon_cool:
