nothing wrong w owning your own inner "slut"....just be safe and have fun and stop giving a rats ass what others think. All my times ive been to TTR (LOST COUNT ATLEAST OVER 6) Ive never seen any slut shaming at all, its encouraged to let loose and have fun. bring on the body shots and AIWC
I go to Temptation once a yr to get my " slut on " lol!!!! Doesn't matter my size or outfit people accept it and help me embrace it! I have 355 days a yr to act proper. I look at it as bringing out my inner sexy goddess!!! If someone sees it as slutty oh well!! My man sees it as sexy and he's the only one who really matters!!!!!
So, I'm curious. Obviously this thread started based on something someone experienced at TTR. What did you see that was slut shaming?
Thanks for all the insights! Let me provide one specific example and let's see if it broadens the discussion. We were in the sexy pool in the middle of the afternoon on our last visit, when one of the adjacent balconies started bustling with activity. Turns out it was a much older couple (65+) who proceeded to "drop trou" and get busy in purposeful line of sight. Numerous people in the pool began whooping and shouting, but it was much less encouragement than mocking. The hushed conversation all around us was decidedly in the vein of, "Oh my God...did you SEE them? They have no business showing off like that!" I guess my original question was more about WHO is allowed to be slutty, and if anyone has ever felt on the outside of that circle. Maybe this thread should've been entitled "slut-worthiness". And again, thanks for all the response posts. This is an interesting conversation, and I'm sure it's something first-timers probably worry about.
Exactly. As long as you're operating within the ground rules of TTR, there should be no shaming of any men or women that are there trying to have a good time and not causing you any harm at all. My wife and I both wore tiny outfits out every night at PatyO's our first trip, danced with other couples, did body shots, mingled, flirted, what-the-frak-ever we wanted and it was AWESOME! If anyone was judging us, they need to loosen up and have a good time or go somewhere else, because everyone else is there to have a good time for a few days. There are plenty of other resorts you can wear fancy clothes and sit and enjoy a quiet dinner with no other interaction with others. Been there, done that, left the resort to look for locals to party with at night, instead of bore city night life at the up tight resort.
Ah applesauce thank you for explaining. There has been one tune that I've seen this in person. It was one swinger gal who was a little out of control and over the top aggressive with a lot of the guys. I definitely overheard some murmurs about that but I think it was just based on the over aggressive nature of the "attacks" and not really because of the slut factor. That's really the only sexual advance that I've seen that was discouraged instead of applauded!
I think you would hear that anywhere however we are talking about our slutty Haven TTR... I guess the question is would you want to be around people that are mocking others.. That quote sounds to me to come from someone I wouldn't want to socialize with.. and chances are they wouldn't want to socialize with us.. and honestly the people we hang out with would probably slowly but surely alienate that person that made a comment like that. I think if I heard someone make that comment.. and I think I have in the past.. said to them.. do you really understand where you are.. this is Temptation and there isn't suppose to be any judgments here.. and move on. I have better things and more fun to be had than hang around someone that can only be critical of others to make themselves feel good about themselves.. And my definition of to slutty.. is my definition .. your definition could be something altogether different. We already judge ourselves more than anyone else can.
To sum everything up on this thread, embrace your inner & outer sluttiness. You have all the rest of the year to be corporate you, have fun & let go at TTR 4 the time u r there. And always remember the TTR code-- Nobody knows U, and nobody gives a shit. That's real Guy Code - Girl Code stuff, How to be a Grown Up-- stuff!!!!!
