Personally, women can 'own' the tiny swim suits. Smaller the better. For men, unfortunately, it's seen as comic relief, but not necessarily sexy. TBH, I'd stick with swimwear that comfortably covers the meat and veg, save yourself the million and one awkward conversations with guys and gals making a joke of it.
I've worn the tiny suits for many years and have received many compliments. Generalizing saying all woman can own tiny suits and men can't is a double standard.
That sounds very opinion based, rather judgmental and goes completely against what I feel (my opinion) are the best parts of being in the TTR family. We've all spent years praising how nice it is to go somewhere safe, where you're not judged on your color, sexual preferences, or whether or not you are the ideal person to be dressing a certain way. It isn't our job to decide who is entitled to wear one type of bathing suit or another. There are those out there that would have you believe that if you aren't suitable for the cover of the swimsuit issue you shouldn't be in any sort of public setting in anything less than fully dressed. Thankfully most of the people I know don't subscribe to that philosophy.:icon_smile::icon_smile::icon_smile:
I never would have had the courage to wear a thong in public if wasn't for the total acceptance and even encouragement by our friends, both new and old, that we meet at Temptation. If I had run into the sentiment that you just expressed it definitely would not have happened. I guess we chose the right time to go to TTR. Cheers to all you Mayhem Phuckers!