Shezz your the man, no one can hate you. In fact this forum wont be as fun and interesting without you. If we are all nice and easy going, this forum will be too boring. If there is a little tension but with love, makes conversations more exciting. Personally, when looking for pleasure, this is pure pleasure no relationship or anything else, I would prefer a model type girl and this is obvious or the skinny, fit and in shape with all the curves, nice tan etc... But when I am looking for a relationship and someone i would consider spending the rest of my life with, all the other stuff is extra, I should say a bonus. I believe that many of the guys on this board think the same way too.