Single Guy, 40th Birthday, Should I Book Here?

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  1. Chef250

    Chef250 Newbie Registered Member

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    I have not booked yet, I see that it's mainly younger couples that are booking at this resort. I am looking for more of a singles resort, I turn 40 this year and I am recently(8 months) divorced. I'm looking for a place to vacation where someone my age might have a good time.

    Thanks for your help
     
  2. JasonandNikki

    JasonandNikki Regular Registered Member

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    You will definitely find a lot of couples, while Temptation is not a swingers resort, it is swinger friendly. That being said I know a lot of singles who also love and enjoy it. It is what you make it. If you are looking for a fun place where you can make life long friendships this could be your place.
     
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    Steve Administrator Owner

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    If I was single and about to turn 40 I would.
     
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    mexico24 Guru Registered Member

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    It’s not a singles resort, if that is what’s you are looking for, but singles are welcome. Just don’t come with an alpha dog mentality thinking that you’ll find sex. Don’t stare at boobs, don’t take pics, don’t talk to wives/girlfriends too much unless their partner is there, and keep your hands (feet, etc) to yourself. Follow those simple rules and you’ll have a blast. Violate the rules and become a thread on this forum.
     
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    Chef250 Newbie Registered Member

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    My ex and I were in the lifestyle for a year or so. Consequently, if we are being open and honest here most swinger couples we encountered were looking for other couples, or the rare unicorn single female, not a single male. If I am mistaken as it's been years since I've been in the scene, please correct me.
     
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    FakeNewsTeam It's a matter of time, but time is all we have! Registered Member

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    It works both ways.
    Not always only unicorn.
    We know a few couples looking for a single male.
    In some cases it is just for the woman’s enjoyment and ok with man.
     
  7. MikeandHeather

    MikeandHeather Guru Registered Member

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    Or 41, or 42, or 90
     
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    StephanieandBrian Enthusiast Registered Member

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    One of my favorite people from my trip was a single guy, he was with a group of people but he wasn't in a couple. We talked football and drinking and the resort, such a fun dude. I say go for it and have fun.
     
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    M&MfromLA Regular Registered Member

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    Book...get in the pool...have a few drinks....talk to people....bring a fun attutude....

    Rinse and repeat. :)
     
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    BigPapaPuff Regular Registered Member

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    Yes, yes you should. Be cool, be respectful and you may have one of the best times of your life!
     
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