Also about the theme nights. I plan to partake in most but are there nights you can simply wear what you want and not look out of place?
You can do that any night. There are so many themes by groups other than TTR themes. Also many do not even know and simply come in dinner vaca clothes...men and women.
What would you say the precentages are of people who partake in the theme nights and others that don’t? Also for the men I assume lingerie nite is mostly for the girls so do the men just where a button up shirt?
A couple of us guys were wearing boxers for lingerie night. Some with robes. But otherwise it was mostly women in attire. White Night had 95%+ participation. The lowest maybe was with fetish/heaven and hell and superhero at 50%. I expect December to March have lower numbers and April to June and October have higher participation because of this site.
Steve has a great link for theme and sexy wear in the stickies at the top of this forum page. I've had my best luck with Yandy--can't believe how fast they deliver stuff!--and Amazon has a great variety. I love it when guys join the girls and dressing for themes--just makes the atmosphere a lot more fun when we all put in a little more effort!