The weird thing was that "activities" that others were doing didn't seem to get a response from security. Maybe thought we were trouble makers
So far this week I've seen plenty of nipple sucking, grinding, ass smacking, and kissing and have a guess about a few discreet under the water fun occurring...but didn't see anything more brazen than that. This was the same experience I had in 2012. A lot of sexual contact, but no real public sex going on. Which frankly, for us, was part of the appeal; a flirty party atmosphere. It was part of the reason we didn't look twice at Hedonism when booking. As someone said, tame and wild is a matter of perspective. And everyone's experiences can be different week to week. We had a girl strip nude during a game and the staff quickly got her to put her bottoms back on, I remember the same happening in 2012. It hasn't seemed to change much from our vantage point, but everyone's going to have a different view to some degree.
Hey, let's not discount the anticipation, excitement and naughtiness of a nice warm handshake between new friends Perhaps appropriately, other than sanctioned activity audience participation, it seems sexy PDA's are moving to in-room, balcony shows and the Boobs Cruise (The right thing to do as before) Btw, is the Security staff's Yellow Card warning system still in play at TTR? (Lately, what have you seen formal warnings given for?) Not worth getting a security guard buzzkill (they're just doing their job) or worse yet, getting kicked out ruining a hard earned vacay. Discretion probably best poolside rather than exhibitionism? Are the old body shot days totally gone now? Probably more closed circuit security cams too now with the renos?
I cam confirm I went in October and was involved in alot raunchyness being over overlooked. So maybe its the season idk
We went opening day last August and it seemed about the same as it always has. Didnt even notice security (which is how it should be anywhere). Guess i will see in about 32 days!!
Ok here is some more context that maybe helps. I am sure at your ls club there is an area where people mingle, flirt, dance, touch a little but they are not supposed to engage in open sexual activity. That is TTR equivalent. The big difference is maybe 90% of the people at your club are looking for ‘fun’ where the TTR demographic is maybe 1/3rd ls (although this % seems to be increasing each time we go), 1/3rd curious about the ls and interested in exploring and 1/3rd there for the party only. Also at TTR you can’t be openly exposed clothing wise. Meaning goods can’t be on display. As mentioned in above posts sheer thong and pasties are enough though so it is a pretty fine line. As for Desire in the main community areas the rules are pretty much the same when it comes to play. But you can stretch the rules more. Security looks the other way. Now your ls %s jump way up to maybe 2/3rd. And for clothing (or lack there of) anything goes. Back to the ls club comparison. So then at your ls club there are likely group play areas. Ttr does not have these. Any play must be behind closed doors. Desire does have these...jacuzzi and play room are the spots. And you really can get away with a lot in the disco. Again not supposed to but rarely enforced. Hope that helps.
Bottom line is we all understand the "rules".........And MANY times we try to push the limits. We've seen it all. ALL. Maybe 5 years ago outside of the old buffet .....between there and the old sports pool we observed full on sex.........ride 'em cowgirl! We've seen lots of oral and as we've discussed in the forum, a line of 8-10 men and women lined up to provide oral pleasure to a woman sitting on the "shelf" adjacent to one of the tubs. Security has always seemed sporadic in the mid late afternoons but almost non-existant before 2pm. We certainly wouldn't recommend such blatant activities, but waterproof pleasure devices are usually much more discreet and are difficult to detect. Get you buzz on..............discretely.
