My group goes in September & all us wild crazy single women have fun the whole time .. Just be respectful & not pushy!! You can always hit downtown Cancun for the younger crowd. We usually don't leave the resort tho. Temptation is a great place to 'meat' new friends. [emoji48]
I'm glad its early September, I don't know if my wife could control herself with our first time at TTR with studly young Brits. We are the last week, so stay when you are CP
There won't be fellas. For one thing you are barely over the minimum age to get in, which immediately reduces the overall number of people close your age. The other thing is, the early 20's single crowd is just not the demographic that is typically at TTR. You will find a few people close you your age, but by far the majority will be couples, and many will be old enough to be your parents. As for the comments about not being "confident" and all the older women wanting to "get it on" with you, I again think you will be disappointed. Apparently there will be one willing person, but there won't be the numbers you hope for, and that's going to get a little frustrating for you at some point. And as another poster suggested, five young guys hanging out together just aren't likely to get the same reception as five couples. As for the comment about "40 somethings reliving their youth", I think that comment is off the mark also. It's really about some pretty great people just being who they are and not "reliving" but instead living for today and being confident in who they are today and tomorrow. I hope my comments offered you some insight.
A few more things to consider, this hotel is far away from the clubs compared to most other Cancun hotels. If you do go to the clubs and say you do find some ladies to spend the night with, you will have to go to their hotel, or pay a fee to bring them into Temptation. Also, there is the very real possiblity that their may be 0 single women there within 5 years of your age. I'm not saying you shouldn't go, but it's definitly a resort geared towards couples, sure crazy ass, hard partying super awesome couples, but couples non the less.... anyways, if you guys are super open minded and sociable, you can and probably will have fun at this resort, just trying to paint an accurate picture from the perspective of someone who wishes they were your age still. :daveandmo:
We haven't mentioned coming to try things on with other people, the main reason we've looked at this hotel is due to the party lifestyle it seems to have but with recent comments it looks like it may not be for us and looked at like outsiders? Am I right?
I couldn't agree more chubbydyk - I'll be 43 in May (this is Steph speaking by the way) & I relive my youth every year @ TTR, It's spring break for adults!! Now, when I get home, that's a different story, my liver has to recoup for a week but it's all worth it for the fun time and great friends. TTR is the BEST place to go relive that youth :daveandmo:
If you're looking for the great night life, this is the place to go. We go every September & we, personally, haven't had any bad experiences with single men; however, I've read a lot of mixed reviews. My recommendation is make sure ya'll respect the women, both married and single and don't make an ass out of yourselves by trying to be "big shot single lads looking to hookup" that won't fly at TTR. I'm not saying that's how you all are, I dont' know you, it's just my two cents, for what it's worth. The only way to know if you'll like it is to book that trip & try it. I guarantee, you will love TTR & will be hooked after your first trip. We'll be there Sept 10-19th, if you're there at that time, look for us & say hi!! Cheers to you!!! :beer4:
Thank you for your positive response no were completely the opposite were just there to have a laugh with each other and enjoy the atmosphere it's mostly like a bonding holiday as we've been busy with work schedules we haven't seen much of each other but unfortunately with us being young lads there's a reputation that comes with it, a few of us are getting together tomorrow night and looking through our options with this being one of them Lee
Leep, you seem to be talking pretty respectfully and going about your questions in the correct way. Which might mean even though you are young, you may be mature and perhaps your mates are the same way as well. If you understand this isn't MTV spring break and your hooking up with 2 different girls a day, and your goal is mostly to mingle, party, and have fun with your group, then this might be the resort for you. Again, just understand you will be at the one end of the age spectrum, and it is mostly couples. The first time I went I was 29, and was still on the younger end. I’m 33 now, and still on the younger end. My wife is a year younger than me, and if we actually told people we were 25, they probably wouldn't think twice. At a quick glance we might not look like we belong. Expect we carry ourselves older, and pretty much have been doing that since we were way younger. If I was 23 then this would be the resort for me. But I know me. I know what I enjoy, and I know where I can fit in. I have had a fake id since I was 17, worked in the restaurant business, and constantly found myself out and about with people in their 20's and 30's. My parents are very social and I went on all-inclusive vacations with them, and was allowed to drink at 17. This all give me lots of experience hanging with people in all age groups. If I was at TTR, it would only take 2 minutes of conversation with me to realize I wasn't in over my head, and I wasn't just trying to grind on single girls or milfs. Only you know yourself and your buddies and maybe this describes you. If so, don't think twice about booking. My last trip there was a group from the UK: 5 guys, 2 girls, all under 25. They mingled a bit, had lots of fun, and they loved the place. Now they weren't getting buck wild all the time and hitting on everyone, but they had lots of fun. They did stick with themselves most of the time (even though I am sure any group would have welcomed them if they wanted to participate more). I have a friend that might be bringing his 22 year old gf in May. She will have no issues. She hangs with our diverse age crowed every weekend. Now I have two other friends 25 and 26, TTR is not for them, and I would never invite them. Great dudes, but as soon as it gets to 11pm and they got a strong buzz on, it's "Call a cab, get to the bar, let’s get chicks". Nice guys, but their regular mentality just won't work at Temptations. No one will look at you like an outsider, unless you present yourself that way. Asking these questions, and discussing with your buddies is a great first step, and you might be on the right path. Good luck with whatever you all decide.
