So I think the reason most of us aren't answering the question is because we may not know the answer (or at least we didn't know when the question was posted). Now that a few others have weighed in and offered up a few definitions, I will say that if 2 X's is everything from body shots to soft swapping then that is a really broad category that most of us probably fit into somewhere. I did literally LOL when I read the comment that a swayer is just a swinger in need of tequila, too funny, and probably too true.
My Hubby will be happy to know I've logged in to meet you all. The countdown has started!!! I promise I'm not as bad a boobie sucker as he makes me sound! LOL. I don't even know what a Unicorn is? - April
Winner winner chicken dinner. A unicorn is a single female in the lifestyle. Called a unicorn because they almost as hard to find as a real unicorn. D PS- I'm only first because you know I am always on here. Lol
Yes, it may have been simple logistics due to you staying signed in my friend, but you DID know the answer, lol!
Brent, that is the best explanation I have seen yet. Thanks. Agree that the 1x, 2x, 3x labeling doesn't really happen at the resort. Still fun to discuss in advance though. People either wear an orange bracelet indicating they are in this site (the cruise gives them out too) or a cream bracelet indicating they are a premier member or the white bracelet w red lips which I believe you get from the sister site or no bracelet at all. We found it fun talking with whomever and it just seemed to naturally come up with some people. We were surprised how many people would say to us... We usually ask whether someone is in the lifestyle but with you guys we could tell. And we would have to say as nicely as we could that we are not but have no issues with it. We party really hard and like to meet a lot of people hanging out and doing shots with many so sometimes that is taken the wrong way. At home we are pretty much vanilla. At TTR your definition of swayer fits us pretty well. Edit: need to change to almost fits us as I don't think we will be 'upgrading our badge to xxx at any moment' but I think you get the idea.
Very well said. Everyone at TTR is very accepting and come from a wide range of backgrounds. We all come to make friends, some that come back year after year, party and have a good time. If we were going just to have sex, sex, sex with other people then we would check out the real swinger resorts. M and I just love the party atmosphere that you cannot get anywhere else. D
Thanks for all the Welcomes!!! So, is there a Naughty School Girl night already planned for that week? That's always a fun time! -April:aktion033: