Next week will be our 4th trip and I'm the most self conscious person in the world. This time is especially so because I got my boobs lifted and augmented since last trip and I'm worried about the scars. My top may not come off this year :-(
You didn't just spend that much to not show off the new goodies. Don't think of them as scars, think of them as a cool new design, like a zebra. Zebra print is always in. No one will judge you, show off the new breasts, take them out for a test drive. You can always put the top back on, if you feel you need to, but I bet you won't.
Not going to lie I had a bad bout of self concious worry the other day after trying on some swim trunks for the trip and worried I may have jumped the gun on booking the trip.... but went home went to sleep and just put it in the back of my mind till later
I have the same issue. But you know what. I don't give a shit. My wife loves me no matter how I look. I am going to have fun and enjoy every second of my trip. Don't sweat it and let yourself go. Walk out there with a smile on and start the party.
I (Kristie) am also a very self conscious person and need a few drinks to loosen up. I had a breast reduction when I was 23 and have huge anchor type scars on each breast. Then I have gained weight over the years and when my boobs grew it made my nipples sit really high and awkward. I would love to get them fixed plus I am a chubby girl, so when it came to going to this resort for the first time, I was a basket case. A couple drinks and meeting awesome people (who took my top off with a little help from my hubby) and I wasn't judged at all. I had a great time and intend to do the same in 25 days!
Our scars make us unique, so have a great time and know that you are beautiful, scars and all AJ Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
hun, I am the queen of scars....every appendage and torso included has a scar...foot, knee, elbow, neck, chin, boobs, gall bladder, & hands they are my battle scars of life!....Own them and be proud! Enjoy your trip!! D
