Hello all.. I am planning on a vaca in Cancun for my wife's 30th birthday. I have read all kinds of reviews and I am now down to 3 hotels.. The Riu Cancun, The royal cancun and Temptation.. From what I've seen, Temptation seems to be mainly older people (40's-50's.) Is this in fact the case? Also, can someone give me the "real deal" as far as what to expect? I am seeing lots and lots of stuff about swingers, nudity, etc which is fine but I just want to know the real scoop!! They say no PDA but from what I have read, oral sex by the sexy pool is common, full nudity during the games is expected, etc.. Hey, I am fine with all of this stuff but does it really happen? Someone, PLEASE give me the real scoop!!
We just got back from our first trip, we are in our mid 30's and were right at home. Lots of people younger and also some older than we were. I never met anyone during the trip who came across as a swinger, and we were never "approached" by anyone, other than flirty comments all in fun. About 2 or 3 times a day, there will be contests, where the "losers" may end up completely naked- but when it is by the pool they are usually underwater. Unless someone gets a hold of a guys swim trunks and runs off with them to the shallow end or something like that. The volleyball is a little off from the pool, and it is very possible you'll sit at the sexy pool all day and not see more than just "boobs". As far as that goes, there are all ages, and all sizes, and just don't go expecting everyone around to look like Victoria's Secret models. What you do have, is a lot of fun people who are having fun, drinking and are comfortable with themselves. Sometimes my wife (Paige) would go topless, and other times not, just depending on her mood. Basically it is just like every other resort, everyone is there to have fun, and no one would push you to do something you don't want to do. We didn't participate in any of the games or contests, except karaoke on night, and even though we don't regret it, I think next time we will probably join in more. This being our first trip we were just more or less relaxing. There are 3 pools to hang out in, with one being the "quiet" pool where you can go to get away from the excitement if you want, and we did spend a whole day there recovering from a partying night. I would definitely not go expecting to see fully naked people everywhere, as soon as the game is over everyone has their clothes back on- except for some tops. But you do have a couple of chances to see nudity if you want to follow the action to the games. I'm sure the repeat offenders around can elaborate more, but I don't think you have much to worry about as far as what you mentioned.
Thanks, that is very helpful... I don't really mind all of the sexually charged atmosphere/games, etc and topless is expected anywhere in the caribbean- no big deal.. What I was really afraid of is people having sex by the pool area, being approached constantly to "swap," public sex, etc.. That's really not what we are into.
The worst I've seen in my 8 years is some kissing in the pool. Never been approached to swing, but have seen and met people there (and probalby elsewhere) who do. Don't fret the bad swingers and sexaholic rumors, that's all they are.
Ever see that movie "Boogie Nights"??? remember the scene in that house party? with the orgies, oral sex and the gangbags?..... they got that scene from Temptations (formerly BBG)!! I heard they even bring out a donkey and play a game called "initiate the first timers"....its crazy!!!!!! im kidding of course. I never stayed at temptations, but I did go for a 1 day pass to go meet a good friend once, and besides the occasional boobies flopping around, I didnt see any kind of sex or proposals happening, or I would have stay the rest of the week!!!!
Oral sex by the pool?????????????? Where was I and why wasn't I invited? :evil: Rumors are great fun to track. Think of a college frat party for adults. You see a little T&A but mostly in games. If people hook up they head off to their rooms and then come back. Every once in a while you will see someone that just has topush the envelope, but that happens anywhere. You sign a statement when you check in that says if you get caught having sex in public you will be removed from the hotel with no refund. Go have fun. You've never experenced anything like TTRin your life and once you do, you'll never stay anywhere else. It's not a 5 Star hotel but once you are there that will be the furthest thing from your mind. Your wife will thank you everyday for taking her there. Jamie
PS - the swingers at the resort are all given "Gold" wristbands, so they are very easy to spot :cdncat:
How in the world have I missed the oral sex by the pool in each of the 14 previous Blue Bay Getaway/Temptation trips, and why do I end up with a "Gold" band? Does a banana count as oral sex?
Are you guys being funny or do they really have gold bands 4 the swingers,lol. If so thats hilarious.
We're a 20something/30something couple and have seen ALL ages there. I would say there's more 30s - 40s but still it's not like everyone else is in the minority... it's a good mix. You will find swingers everywhere you go and nudity was covered in the other posts before this one. As for the PDA.. other than kissing and the odd groping of your significant other I've never seen anything else in public. The stories of the bj's and sex in public may seem like a lot but I'm sure it's pretty rare when you think about how many people actually go there. Don't expect to find people bangin away *L*. and hey.. if it all really is too much for ya.. there's always the quiet pool... nothing ever goes on there.
