Glad to see you had a good time. Nice to see Security is back to normal. That's why we have to ''whine'', when they get over zealous on the good folks. If it were for the people that thought Security was normal in April and it didn't bother them, we would have lost the ''sexy atmosphere'' and TTR was going to be a retirement home with lots of security.:musik026:
We go in April as that's the only time that my wife can get off from work in the spring. You say we're a "Click"? Why is it then, when my wife and I started going to TTR 4 years ago not knowing a soul, (And not being in a "Click"), ended up being warmly welcomed by a few and after 4 years, ended up by meeting and seeing again and again over 200 every April. Every year, more and more join our April group, both single guys, gals and couples from all over. We don't all come at the same time but a lot of us try to overlap at least a few days together as this is usually the only time of the year that we can get together. Luckly, thru the net, e-mail and other web sites we can and usually do stay in contact with each other through out the year. We've made life-long friends because of this welcoming by strangers which we wouldn't trade for anything, both married, single or other numerous "personalities". As the saying goes: Nobody knows you and Nobody gives a shit! Seems to me that after the 1st trip of not "Fitting" in, a person might want to look at their own personality and wonder "Could it be me that's doing something wrong or is it the majority that are? Of the hundreds that we've met, we can count on one hand, the people that we'd avoid from here on out, because they're few and far between! This is why we're repeaters and will continue to do so until TTR fades away. Woody & Suzy :ernaehrung005:
woodman I totally Understand and respect your point of view but I wasn't the only person whow notiiced all the couples that knew each other hanging around the same end of the pool. I'm comforable with who I am and have a great personality, thank you very much.
Hey Ken, I too have to respectfully disagree, I have been going as a single guy for years and years and have always felt welcomed and met new people by being outward and talking and introducing myself to every one, making small talk at the bars with guys, girls, singles, couples, everyone I possibly can.. Thats how I managed to make so many friends over the years... To the couples defense that are hanging at the same end of the pool, If you walk into a bar full of your friends, wouldnt you go hang out with them. After all these years a lot couples have become close friends and vacation together, hence hang out together... I know where your coming from, but I think its just as much the single persons job to mingle and go out of your way to meet people. ** come down with me and keith and Dan, we can all meet everyone and enjoy hangovers together. lol
It may have been an un-regular week,(if thats a word) or it may be because of recent events, Did you try meeting people on line on this site before going, instead of coming here after to complain? You just have to meet a few people cause they know a few and they know a few........................next thing you know you have a group. There are no couples groups on this site that I know of. There are single threads, did you try those ???? With a little effort you can have a great time. try it next time
isnt that natural? i mean, when you go out at home and see somebody you know, dont you naturally gravitate towards them?
I too have to disagree with this as well.. perhaps it was an assumption on your part that it was a couples click and that singles wernt welcome .. it was more likely people from Cancuncare but if you just stood back and assumed you wernt welcome then you really missed out ..
ken63:huh: NOt sure that I understand. We have been 7 times and never felt left out by couples or singles. Now I have seen couples walk away from singles after they have hit on their spouse and told them no thanks or they were just out rite rudd and then they will let outher couples know about that person.Maybe you felt left out becouse you though you were going for a week long orgy and the women would flock you as soon as you got out of your shuttle.Sorry you had a bad vacation but next time you might want to check things out before you book.:cry:
We have been in both groups, Ken... First time we came we spent the first 4 days somewhere else, and it was sooooo boring that we came to steves cruise...just watched a lot of "friends from this site" and came away totally impressed with the place. Second trip... First half we just sat and had that mentality, why doesnt anyone talk to us, do we have the plague....Everyone is having fun, but we just aren't in their clique. The second to last night..girl walks up to us..says, hey i dont know you, lets do shots... We started to have so much fun we stayed longer... Later on in the trip drunk girl said to me "You were part of the couple that thought you were too cool for this place" "we saw you over there drinking by yourselves" I learned over that trip...TTR is for friends...To have friends, you have to be friends...when we stopped being shy, we had fun. sometimes some of the people you think are strangest, have that figured out the best.... so I get your point ken, but i don't think these "cliques" are anything more than people who decide to join in on the fun
