@lea-888 Thank you for taking the time to write a review. I think this could be very helpful for a lot of people thinking about visiting. I am glad you had fun and also found things about the resort you liked, and it's perfectly understandable that you found things you didn't. It's weird for me to say that as a guest of 10 visits, but sometimes the topless is bit much for me. Not that I have a problem with boobs, or people being topless or anything like that, it's just something else I guess. And then once I know you, I wouldn't even notice if you have a top on or not, but that first little bit with a stranger can feel slightly awkward to me as well. I don't really know how to explain it. I don't want to just focus on that part of your review and the comments that followed though, because you said lots of other informative stuff too. But, I also feel weird that sometimes the play-makers are doing things they would rather not. I feel the same way at strip clubs too when I see some gross dude strait up having to pay for a girl to talk to them. I mean the girls sign up for it, and pretend to like it, but it also makes me just feel a little off. Now thinking about this, maybe this is one of the reasons I don't spend too much time with any of the play-makers. Cause if I got to know them more, I would be more observant if they were doing something I could tell they don't like. I think it's just better to assume they are used to it, and really don't care. And also, it is very possible that the person they are dancing awkwardly with, that looks out of their league, is actually a friend they have known for a while, and actually are having a fun time dancing with them. I mean that's probably what my wife looks like when she's dancing with me in a crowded scene, and people wonder how much I am paying her....the answer is A LOT. jk It is kind of confusing to me that you said you let you BF have sex with other girls, but the swinging thing is too much. I am not 100% sure, but isn't that like part of that whole scene? hahaha no judgement at all from me, do whatever works for you. Sorry to hear there weren't many attractive dudes either, but IMO mostly all dude are unattractive when we are drunk with our bathing suits on. Unless your in great shape, which is slightly difficult to always maintain, and if I think about the 50 dudes 30 years old+ that I see regularly and know, there are only like 3 in great bathing suit shape. But I do live outside of Philly, so maybe if I went to Scottsdale, AZ or Palm Springs, CA that number would dramatically increase. Thanks again for the review! I would agree TTR can be a bit much at times, but it's kind of something you have to get used to, because mostly everywhere else is kind of lame. I will also agree with @Jclc2010 this review has made me want to go again even more!!!