@lea-888 Thank you for taking the time to write a review. I think this could be very helpful for a lot of people thinking about visiting. I am glad you had fun and also found things about the resort you liked, and it's perfectly understandable that you found things you didn't. It's weird for me to say that as a guest of 10 visits, but sometimes the topless is bit much for me. Not that I have a problem with boobs, or people being topless or anything like that, it's just something else I guess. And then once I know you, I wouldn't even notice if you have a top on or not, but that first little bit with a stranger can feel slightly awkward to me as well. I don't really know how to explain it. I don't want to just focus on that part of your review and the comments that followed though, because you said lots of other informative stuff too. But, I also feel weird that sometimes the play-makers are doing things they would rather not. I feel the same way at strip clubs too when I see some gross dude strait up having to pay for a girl to talk to them. I mean the girls sign up for it, and pretend to like it, but it also makes me just feel a little off. Now thinking about this, maybe this is one of the reasons I don't spend too much time with any of the play-makers. Cause if I got to know them more, I would be more observant if they were doing something I could tell they don't like. I think it's just better to assume they are used to it, and really don't care. And also, it is very possible that the person they are dancing awkwardly with, that looks out of their league, is actually a friend they have known for a while, and actually are having a fun time dancing with them. I mean that's probably what my wife looks like when she's dancing with me in a crowded scene, and people wonder how much I am paying her....the answer is A LOT. jk It is kind of confusing to me that you said you let you BF have sex with other girls, but the swinging thing is too much. I am not 100% sure, but isn't that like part of that whole scene? hahaha no judgement at all from me, do whatever works for you. Sorry to hear there weren't many attractive dudes either, but IMO mostly all dude are unattractive when we are drunk with our bathing suits on. Unless your in great shape, which is slightly difficult to always maintain, and if I think about the 50 dudes 30 years old+ that I see regularly and know, there are only like 3 in great bathing suit shape. But I do live outside of Philly, so maybe if I went to Scottsdale, AZ or Palm Springs, CA that number would dramatically increase. Thanks again for the review! I would agree TTR can be a bit much at times, but it's kind of something you have to get used to, because mostly everywhere else is kind of lame. I will also agree with @Jclc2010 this review has made me want to go again even more!!!
I’m definitely understanding more about your point of view with your clarifications. I will add that the Playmakers and their suggestive comments like you mentioned definitely plays to the lifestyle mentality...but it’s sort of done tongue in cheek as a way to bridge the gap between the lifestyle couples to those maybe just curious about the lifestyle...those who have a little lifestyle fantasy to the straight up vanilla and all those in between. Those comments wouldn’t be made at an actual “lifestyle” resort. They wouldn’t be funny in that environment...what makes it funny is when Non-lifestyle people are asked those questions or when lifestyle couples are asked then and how the vanilla couples react to the comments. It’s sort of the sexy vibe that makes Temptation what it is...where a couple with any couple can come to push their limits for a week if they choose to. Maybe even take off her top!
Yes I get that for sure I agree with it all. Hey I didn’t wanna toss it till I tried it so on my Last day I took off my top for about 20 minutes at the beach . Didn’t do much for me but I’m glad I can say I did .
I woulnt mind the topless after knowing the person either I’m glad someone agrees. I just want this forum to have all opinions and expressed experiences also none one you guys were there at the same time as me. Maybe I had a 80 to 90% lifestyle rate and the topless was an easy 95%. when I was there. All these things varie from day to day. I want couples to be prepared. I can definitely see couple’s arguing at this place if they don’t know how sexual it actually is. I love all the skimpy clothes I definitely joined that boat quick on lingerie night I went wearing a dress and 10 minutes in Im back in my room putting on lingerie lmao! Im sure your a great dancer ! Haha And don’t look like a creep with your wife . Yeah I stayed away from the playmakers even when I did dance with the one that grabbed be the one night I feel like she’s paid to dance with me. I would probably get use to that if I visited more but I love the stripper comparison! That’s exactly spot on. im into swinging. Im into everything except being around 200 topless women with my boyfriend. We never did this before till this trip. Me and my boyfriend always just had a girl join us before this trip but since this trip was mainly couples we tried a full blow swing lol I enjoyed it. I know it’s weird that I didn’t like the topless I know this lol I just didn’t feel like I needed to see everyone’s tits all day I guess I don’t know lol. Just not use to it I guess I also like having some quality time with my man and around all those tits we would barley look at each other lmao. So that’s probably why we liked spending time away from it all every other day.
After my husband posted and we’ve read your clarification some of your story has changed some... I really guess that you saying the boobs made you nervous/jealous... but you allowed your guy to be with other gals?! Just interesting to me!! You’ve definitely generated some thoughts... good or not
Lol. Also maybe i Yes I know I’m weird lol but that’s exactly it. But we met a couple That also let’s her bf fuck other girls and they swap and she likes the tits out but she won’t let him watch porn porn makes her jealous. I don’t understand why I like watching him fuck someone yet I’m jealous of 200 tits out that arnt even touching him I wanna get to the root of my issue because I wanna go to places like that again. Maybe it’s because I’m not authorizing it?? Maybe I feel like it’s out of my control? I’m not sure. I have been cheated on once so I think that’s the issue I need to address. I wAnna be okay with it so bad you guys have no idea. I’m a very sexual person , I feel very frustrated that I felt uncomfortable about this one thing. Probably just like having more of his attention to myself. I would go to a strip club with him and see tits for a few hours but mingling with reg people topless all day from morning to night was Too strange for me . Maybe if the dicks were out too I would feel like it’s more fair who knows
