Why in the world would anyone need to "wear a certain kind of hat at Temptation" to show that they might be in the lifestyle? WHat happened to just saying so? No, nobody does that. Some folks do wear Steve's CancunSwingers.com bands, that's about it. Hats.... really? No, people wear hats because they like the hat. 'Course, Stacia wears her cowboy (girl?) hat all the time at TTR, maybe that was someone's wishful thinking?