I agree there is alot on here this trip about swinging. We have been approached every trip. We always knew there were alot of swingers at the resort and well enjoy their energy and unhibitied ways. We love the place cause it's fantastic and will continue to go there. Thsi april will be our ninth trip.
RDUBNPK So, after all the discussion, do you feel better, worse, what?? The bottom line is that there aren't any cave men (or women). No one is going to drag anyone off screaming and kicking. I would say relax and have a good time and take any attention that is given to your honey (as long as it is not overboard) as a compliment. That is what I plan to do.....
TTR seems like the perfect place for us and we aren't even making our first trip down until April 23rd! Hedo3 was very, very fun but there seemed to be a lot of "professional" swingers and nudists there. Don't get me wrong...everybody there was super nice and nobody ever pressured us or tried kid knapping us to have sex with them(although that would have been cool!). I guess we consider ourselves "swayers". We wanted an adult vacation with plenty of "possibilities". I love when wifey gets hit on by other men and women! Damn April can't get here fast enough!
well alot of observations and facts to go around. That's why we bring our friends lolll....then there's no need or no worries of not having possibilities. But as we are a group of swayers that meet often we like a new variety and some change now and then. In swinging or swaying the guys must talk to the men first as this is the person that will let the guy be with his partner. I have experienced guys that are aggressive and go straight for the woman....and i have one thing to say....not in this lifetime good luck with the next couple !!! You need a subtle approach and be respective of the people you're dealing with. These are people that have feelings and are humans. Then after that the respect and everything else follows. Swingers aren't only looking for sex and to get down with other couples. We enjoy befriending people and enjoy the company of other people....wether swinger swayer or not. So they not need to run away just because we say no to them. But even if the club is not a swinger or swayer or monogamater...we are just there for a good time !! not a long time but a good time. so let's all just be happy and party together.....as the kids are all right at home !!!!
When I do a search of swingers in the TTR forum here over 100 threads appear, meaning it's maxed out. I'd assume TTR is for more a more opened minded / drinker friendly / party type person at the least. Which would probably be a greater % of swingers then the general population. I'd guess the real number was way under 40% who do, and way lower who do on any regular type of basis. Not a swinger here either, BTW.
