Thank you for that advice, we did our photo shoot it was good but the Photographer ended the shoot once it started to get sexy. I got the feeling he didn't want it going too far. But it was ok.
Well, I've got the shoot booked for the afternoon after we arrive. BUT... I emailed in and specifically requested Mar so we wouldn't have a negative experience... or perhaps I "should" say, so that we "have a great experience." LOL! ... anyway, bad news... Mar is no longer with Provoke. But, they did offer a female photographer, so we'll be able to at least know we're avoiding the Dud Dude. Might get a Dud girl, too, but I'm an optomist.
We did a shoot with Sue in November. My wife didn't want to take it too far, but Sue noticed how excited I was getting (if you know what I mean) and asked if we wanted to "take advantage of that". I took that to mean we could have done pretty much whatever we wanted.