going off my experiences i have voted 10-15 minutes.that gos for the guys in britain anyway. some are better, some are worse.
I can't really give an average for how long a guy lasts and how long the refractory period is, on average. It sorta ran the gammut between Waste, oops, I mean the guy who couldn't get it up to begin with to the guy who seemed like the energizer bunny and never seemed to need a break. (he seemed to be in TOTAL control of when he lost his marbles....to use a pg rated expression) As to part two of the question, I've had guys who recovered within minutes. 3 minutes was the fastest I've ever seen. Then I've been with guys that couldn't hack more than once a week. They tended to be on the older end of the spectrum, like over 40, with the exception of the 3 minute guy, he was 42-44 during the period I was dealing with him. In all honesty, I'm totally clueless as to what the average is for either lasting or recovering. The Kinsey institute proly has done a survey that asked that question though. I'll see if I can find a study based statistic someplace online. Michelle