as i posted in the camera section. I like to think that all people have chosen the resort here as an all adult resort. Thus the emphasis is on ADULT !! Not everyone at all times can live like this and some even worse. A little alcohol and sun hitting the noggin and they ted to think they're god's gift to women. No as you have said this isn't a SINGLE GUY witchhunt cause alot of these guys are more respectful than some of the guys that are in a relationship. So we need to look at the guy behind the shot and take it from there. Many agree that no matter what walk of life you come from is not the problem but more how you were brought up and where your manners ended up. My wife nor anybody i know are not public property ...though we will tend to be naked at one point or topless. This does Not mean you can snap pictures. This means at this point in time you are one lucky individual to be able to see or look at the surroundings. And it ends there. AT no point this gives any individual the consent to take a picture of her- us without the consent. It's all a question of respect. we all have it some just tend to us it less. So i will not point my finger at any one person in particular....single, gay, white,black, hispanic,hetero, or martian.....just act like an adult and have respect for the scenery and enjoy it....cause your not taking her home....i am !!!!!
Well put .....and that is why I love your city lol.... your right though, some people, men , woman or couples think they are gods gift to woman and try to impose their will, which should not be tolerated by anyone...
Rob, You would think after 3 years I would know not to try to drink anything, especially coffee while reading one of your responces, yet once again, I was caught off guard HAHA...hilarious...correct and hilarious
you got it guys i know im wrong about a ton of crap - just ask t but not on this stuff nothing gets under my skin more than people blaming the wrong things for their problems (a) cameras (b) singles (c) jews (d) hindus (e) cars (in my case) typical reactions that create larger problems are to make laws and rules which tend to limit our freedoms and oppress other good decent people and as card carrying libertarian.............that just kills me bad people make poor decisions and those people and those people alone should suffer the consequences for their actions dont be a typical politican and make those of us who are decent pay for those that are not............... SIMPLY GET RID OF THOSE THAT ARE NOT DECENT - LEAVE EVERYONE ELSE ALONE - SOLVES EVERY PROBLEM WITHOUT ANY ISSUE ahhhhhhhhhhhh that would be too damn easy though...........guess its just a lot easier to be passive agressive make a bunch of laws/rules and hire people to enforce those laws/rules......................which GOOD DECENT AND RESPECTFUL people dont need or want anyway rob
Rob i agree the only problem then would be......Who the hell would we bitch at....We would then all walk around like Barney and be happy purple people.....that would stretch to far into my imagination...So let's just be mad at the right people.and have our reason's for doing so. We know who they are...and they know who they are.... But smile as life is short and should be only wasted with a beer in one hand and a great woman in the other....
you do make a good point :daveandmo: T does say that at times im a bigger bitch than my ex wife and thats kinda freaky :aktion047: rob
Rob, Nothing but love for you and Backs. You & I are not necessarily in disagreement. I'm not anti-camera or anti-single guys. I'm busy at work right now and don't have time to fully answer. I'll try to respond tonight. Marsh
marsh i love you man!!! and would gladly help you (as i did with les last year) ask a bafoon to show a little respect for natural law and leave us alone and quit taking pictures of our group rob ps - i give you my word i will never take a picture of you naked
Alright, i need to chime in here. One year i challenged the beer drinking contest winner and i lost. i had to get fully naked in the gog go cage in nice shoes, and i did! Now there was at least a dozen(yes 12) women that came close and started taking pics of me naked. Now does this mean all women are perverts? No one said a word to them or tried to stop em. Double satndard? I think so. was no big deal to me and i didnt say a word to anyone< but goes to show everyone can be called in on this subject. U ever women at a strip club when men are stripping? way worse than guys!! Now that being said, they really need to have a"dont participate, no entry" for the lingerie casino nite. Last year 90% of the people were dressed and we were all taking pictures of each. Everyone was polite about it and there was never any issues. You're at an adults only resort where some nudity is gonna happen!! Pictures will get taken without permission at times!! We need to let it go. The world is not a perfect place. There are respectfull and sleazy people!! Thats life
oh yeah. Well I too am wrong on a lot of crap but I am not wrong on this one either. I am hearing a lot of stating of the problems and a lot of disagreement on the problems but not many solutions. We should be focusing on solutions instead. But first I have to share our experiences and opinions from last week. People taking pictures of naked people they do not know at Temptation is way out of control and is the number one problem with the resort! I can't count on both hands the number of incidents, including directly involving us and friends, during our 5 days at the pool and 1 night at lingerie night. Single guy (known as creepy old surfer dude by those of us there last week) sitting 3 feet from my wifes feet on the end of the pool and attempting to snap picks. Keep in mind there were a million other places to sit but he choose three feet. Three mid twenties slowing their speed as they passed the chairs pretending to be using iPhones and then snapping away and then moving to a jog as I got up to try to see how far I could throw an iPhone. lingerie night, just an estimate, but 10? Cameras flashing at chinos lingerie table. Of course he yelled and got upset but he can't really run the party AND police at the same time. During mikes famous ladies no holds barred arm wrestling tourny, single Italian mafia snapping away. In this situation mike called him out and with the support of the other angry husbands the photo was deleted and camera put away. However, without the group support I am pretty sure this situation would have ended differently based on the guys initial response. Good work mike. Monday pool. Worse day for this problem of the week. Can't list them all so I will just share my most direct experience. During the mr temp competition guys get out of the pool bar and all the ladies are told to congregate in the pool bar area for the show and some participation. So I stand at the upper pool bar to watch the fun. So 5 mins in I watch the guy in front of me zoom In on my wifes chest and face and snap a shot. Then turns to his two buddies and proceeds to make the typical comments single guys would do in this situation. I tap his shoulder and politely ask him to delete the pic. He says f off and I proceed to not so nicely tell him I am going to chuck his camera as far as I can if he doesn't. Thankfully I am a big guy and he made the right choice. I get into so much detail because I want others to understand the problem as we experienced it first hand last week. So now I spent so much time I don't have time to talk solutions but I will be back later tonight for that. I will add though that despite this we had an amazing time. One of the best weeks of our lives. Also we will be back. We will not let this drive us away from an amazing resort. But this is a major problem and I get frustrated as he'll when people can't see that. Or maybe they do see that and everything gets lost in the singles, banning, etc part of the debate. Be back later to talk solutions! Thanks for reading my rambling!
