We have been to RM twice now. 3rd time this June. I would say during the times we were there, more women had their bathing suits on than not. I was actually kind of surprised by it to be honest. I felt like the odd guy out being nude. I am sure this varies depending on the crowd there at the time. One thing I will say is that there was no pressure one way or the other, so she has nothing to worry about.
Charles (the O/P), remember the phrase is "clothing-optional," meaning it's your wife's "option" to go naked if she wants, keep her bikini on if she wants, or go downt he middle with tops off, again, if she wants. Nobody is going to pressure her to do anything, it's not that kind of vibe or place. She's going to love it.
We will be we attending DRM for the first time on July 13-16th. We are Very excited and pry a little nervous. Been to Temptation a couple of times and will be there for a week prior to coming to DRM. Heard so many good things that we decided we had to give DRM a try. We are early 40s and we are celebrating 15th yr anniversary on the 12th. So better way to celebrate an anniversary than to get naked with a whole bunch of fun people. Be great to get to know people before getting there.
First timers to DRM May 11-15, been to Temptation several times, but thought it was time for a change of pace. So looking forward to it!
Don't be worried at all. The atmosphere is very inviting allowing your wife to decide when/if she feel ok getting more comfortable. Your going to have a blast!
We have been I think 4 times now. And from our experience about 40% of ladies wear bottoms on any given day. I don’t think I’ve seen anyone wear a top though. And I would remember that as they would stick out like a sore thumb.
The wife is a little sensitive of her breast cancer scars so she wears a tiny top, but never a bottom, LOL!!!
