I always say that to myself thinking it will help but hell a few drink I will be the fat azz dancing on the tables haha so I think I will be set about an hr or two after getting their haha.
I used to be more overweight but my desire to wear skimpy stuff and not feel self conscious trumped everything keeping me heavier - for the most part. Still fighting some of the issues or my legs would look the way I want them to (there's a reason there aren't pictures of my ass from vertical positions lol)
We will be there most of the time you are. We will meet up and have a celebration drink or three. Losing 100 lbs. is a huge accomplishment! Now lets celebrate! :daveandmo:
Issues DAMN!! now i wanna go in April, but my money is going to the trip in November. hmmm, gotta try that month, lol.
Here's a tip someone may have mentioned. Look for people wearing the CCC bracelet and just start of with "hey, is that a CCC bracelet?, where you from?". You already know that after 3 pages of positive responses they're decent people to approach!
I'm actually very shy too and do not come out of my shell either. I'm not over weight, but that really has nothing to do with it. My spouse is very outgoing and talks to everyone so we are a good mix. I warm up quick and am hoping others will talk to us. Bought the orange bracelets already and planning the Boobs Cruise so hoping it will be fun!
Hey guy's! We will be gone before you get there so just wish for you to have a great time together. That is why you are going! We have been there and other places like TTR and most everyone are size???????? Just be you and everyone will like you! Enjoy Perry & Kathy
Have a few drinks - nothing helps lower inhibitions better than liquor! And join people in one of the "hot tubs" ... you'll naturally engage in conversation with them in such tight quarters. I know from experience when you're self-conscious about your body it doesn't really matter what other people tell you, but honestly the vast majority of people are not judging you ... most have their own body-image issues to deal with anyway. And a little confidence can go a long way to take you from "overweight" to "curvy, voluptuous, and sexy"!
Guys... I am so sorry to read that post. Unfortunately, there are a-holes every you go and often times lots of alcohol makes them come out in full force. That being said, I can tell you from my experience, the majority of the people I met at the resort are judgment free. That's why they go to TTR to begin with, not to be judged themselves. Not to mention the fact that people are there to have a good time and mingle. So at the end of the day, there is no reason whatsoever you shouldn't be meeting new couples every where you turn. My suggestion is if you are not the icebreaking type, get involved in activities. Do a Boobscruise, or play some of the games at the resort. By default you will be meeting people that way. Good luck and have a great time!
