Come on over, guys! You ladies can put on a show for us! There is a leather sofa that works great as front row seating!
So I share this because it really helped us. A year ago we were in the exact same situation. Our adult fun was restricted to TTR. Of course we had dinner and drink nights with couples from high school, college, work, the neighbors, etc but it was really just talking about kids, work, house projects, blah blah blah. Necessary part of life but boring if there is too much of it. So we craved bringing that TTR style party home. We originally tried with those same groups of friends. Either planning later nights out including night clubs or having everyone over and having gummy and Jell-O shots or whatever keeps the party going late. However it didn't work. The people are the key. Some people simply would rather spend the night talking about their kids and going to bed at 10 or 11. To each their own. So friends we met at TTR, who live in the northeast, after hearing our story suggested we try an sls event. For those that don't know what sls is it is a swingers site lol. We didn't know either at the time. And we learned we didn't have to sign up on the site to attend and we definitely didn't have to do anything we didn't want to 'adult' related. And we could simply keep it to sexy dancing and meeting like minded people. So we went with them in January and had a blast. It was exactly what they said it would be. An adult party with lots of fun dancing with like minded people. Sure they (and many others, we were fresh meat lol) invited us to indulge in other activities but 100% respectfully and we choose not to and everyone was cool with that. We had so much fun though that we joined the site and went to some more events. These events are the closest we can get to ttr without being at ttr. And an added advantage is the people we meet are our neighbors. So those dinners and drinks now turn into hot tub parties and late night fun with like minded people Life is too short and we are now living it to the fullest. Once you get over being nervous about giving it a try you realize it is just like ttr's motto. We just needed our friends to hold our hands and say everything would be ok lol before we gave it a shot. And we actually have less incidents than we do at ttr so it has been nice. We are about the party first and foremost and it has been nice that we have been able to now find them in our little corner of the world