please read any of many trip reports and you will find little to no mention of any swingers. are there swingers or lifestyle folks at the resort? yes, just like many other resorts. are they pushy or harrasing? almost always not.
I have to agree with what everyone has said. My wife and I went in April/May of this year and we do not swing and we had a BLAST. As a matter of fact before going to TTR my wife had never gone topless at a beach/resort and it took all of 3 minutes and she was comfortable enough to do it. EVERYBODY at this place is incredibly nice and it is just so much fun. We can't wait to go back next year
She seem like the shy one to me!!! ha ha!!! As everyone has said go have a good time, be yourself and remember the moto no body knows you and no body gives a shit.
we are swingers but we love tu have fun with al kinds of people and most of all meet openminded people
Just reiterating what all the other posts have said. Last year was our first time going to TTR. Believe me, I shared your same concerns. It really is just one giant fraternity party. My husband and I are not in the lifestyle and felt absolutely no pressure ever. We loved it so much that we will go back every year for the rest of our lives. LOL. Can't wait to go back in 2 weeks!!!:icon_lol: TR
:headbanger:As already stated TTR is awesome resort where ADULTS go to have big fun. I agree its one big respectful Frat Party...No one pressures you into anything crazy. A female once offered herself to me for a threesome...I was honored but had to decline.:huh: You guys will fit in as long as you are open minded to just enjoy yourself and have fun..:aetsch004:
It's a huge fun party, couples we met were very respectful. I never had a problem with people we talked to, and to be honest, you can't really tell the difference between those who are and those who aren't swingers! I love the fact you can have a good time at the pool without kids about knocking over drinks, but it isn't boring like other 'adult only' resorts tend to be!
we are in the lifestyle, and, while you might find that others in lifestyle may approach the subject, be honest and say " sorry, just here for a good time"! if they move along, then they werent worth talking to in the first place. theres more to the lifestyle then just sex.
Not to sound like a broken record, but you will have no trouble at all! I'm probably one of the most conservative and naive people ever, and ive never been uncomfortable there! I felt comfortable enough to go topless year one and two, and felt comfortable enough this year for Lingerie! We've met so many fun people who we still stay in touch with! You will have a great grown-up vacation! ~Alicia~
We suggest that you go and be yourselves. Don't worry about what other people are going to ask you nor some of the things you'll see. (the walk around the grounds at night is interesting...lol) We were approached 3 or 4 times on our first trip. We kindly said that we weren't into the LS scene. Not one of the couples left once we declined. They usually sat down and had a few drinks with us. They were some of the most fun people to hang out with. You'll love it there.
