Exactly this! We're in the lifestyle and love Temptation. We also really enjoy partnering up and speaking with couples who are curious and helping them mentally understand what it means to be in it. Most couples we talk with afterwards tell us that they thought I would immeditately start groping their partner and my better half would drop down and start blowing guys after saying hello. . It's fun to help dispel that perception but seriously, no one is going to follow you around all day asking to fuck. It doesnt happen like that. Have fun!