Exactly this! We're in the lifestyle and love Temptation. We also really enjoy partnering up and speaking with couples who are curious and helping them mentally understand what it means to be in it. Most couples we talk with afterwards tell us that they thought I would immeditately start groping their partner and my better half would drop down and start blowing guys after saying hello. . It's fun to help dispel that perception but seriously, no one is going to follow you around all day asking to fuck. It doesnt happen like that. Have fun!
We're just waiting for the husband to hit the bar so we can convince her that she needs to dump him and come back to our room for sexy time. Ohhhh wait...it's always the non-swingers that pull that stuff
They're just as many lifestyle people at TTR then there is at your grocery store! Only thing different is at TTR they're topless and drinking ( unless that happens at your grocery store then we need to visit). 99% of Lifestyle people are the most respectful all-inclusive couples there. A good friend told us something our first trip to TTR, there are Swingers ,(couples who play with other couples, etc), there are Vanilla (couples who only play with their partner) and there are Swayers ( couples who can be swayed to try something new on vacation). The best thing about TTR is you can be anything/anybody you want, because "no one knows you and no one gives a shit"
Me and the wife are trying new things. Both straight. Lifestyle, not sure. Like fun and flirty on vacation. Funny thing is our biggest fear is we don't get asked LOL . 1st time at Temptation or any place with no kids. High school sweethearts married for almost 25.
My advice, although you didn’t ask for it. Have lots of what if conversations with your better half, keep open communication and just let things happen as they do with you two keeping constant communication. If situations arise, there is nothing wrong with calling a timeout and getting in sync.
I do appreciate your input. We have great communication. And have had some close calls (hotwife) that got us both real excited. We are fun and open minded. We are going to have a great time.
Thanks for bringing this up! The girlfriend and I are in an open relationship and see other people. We have talked about finding another couple or single female to play with when at TTR. We are concerned we won't be approached either and that we will have to actively look. Thing is we have no idea how to start that converation or bring it up. Im also a little concerned that if we say we're new at this that we will get passed over for some people more experienced.
