True. And it's really personnal. As for us, No we are not swingers / into Lifestyle. We never think about it. We are going there, because it's the most nice resort we've been and it just feel like family. you don't need to be or not to be in this to have great memories. If you want to be in lifestyle do it. .But don't ask about others. it's none of our or your business. If you want to try it Do it, I think you're enough old to take your own decision and don't do it if you don't want too. you don't need anyone advice!! + nobody will judge you if you decide to be ! Have a great day !