I know where you are coming from. I too was unsure what would happen when Alicia and I took our first trip. Alicia was quite reserved on our first trip and it took her a couple days to feel comfortable to go topless. Since then we have been four times and it takes her about two drinks (if that) to get topless. Your wife will have nothing to worry about. There is no pressure to do anything that she's not comfortable with. I don't know what reservations she has that would hold her back but I rest assure you that no matter what size or shape anyone is, they are all treated equally. TTR is, in my opinion, a great place to increase a persons self-esteem. GO AND ENJOY YOUR TRIP
LOL We are older than some of you folks and it took lots of convincing to get my wife to go to TTR. That was 12 or 13 trips ago, she hasn't packed a top for at least 10, and Easter will be our first time staying for 3 weeks. You will see the term "addicted" a lot on this forum for good reason. But it is not a "lifestyle" resort! It is an adults only resort that is open to all types of fun people, a few of which might be LS