Hello! longtime listener and first time poster, with a unique question I cant find an answer to ANYWHERE! My wife and I had been interested in the vibe at Desire for awhile. We are monogomous, but love the risque feel andand sexually charged atmosphere. I also, would love to tan my cheeks. we are a very fit, early 40's couple, and my wife is gorgeous. here is the question though. My wife is a breast cancer survivor. she kicked its ass at 32. To do that though, she had to have a double masectomy, had implants, but no nipples. this has been a struggle for her, for obvious reasons on body image. and the idea of topless, is terrifying as she dorsnt want to be judged or stand out because of it. It makes total sense. she posted in reddit once asking how thst would go..to go to Desire and be topless with no nips...and the trolls came out in force. "why would you even want to do that" etc. bad forum for that clearly. for those who have been to Desire or TTR....your honest feedback would be great. she is a fierce and sexy lady, who is also hilarious. would it be disturbing, or accepted? (my opinion here is biased of course, i think she is hot as hell, so she doesnt count mine, lol)
I would think it would greatly accepted.. Nobody in this world is perfect so if they don't like it, they can look the other way.. You guys deserve to have fun and not be judged.. Go and enjoy yourselves!!!
@InNeedOfSun First of, congrats to your wife on kicking cancers ass! F*ck cancer! And yes, it would greatly accepted. Nobody is there to judge anyone.
Congrats to her. Power thru Strong fuck the trolls. She’s a survivor. As long as she loves herself and you love her that’s all that counts
Be proud!! Everyone will understand if and they don’t, look at it as a way to educate people. Fuck cancer! My wife passed from cancer. Fight the good fight!